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Kokoro's avatar

Should I talk to him or move on?

Asked by Kokoro (1419points) January 25th, 2011 from iPhone

I’m sorry for all the retarded dating questions but I’m just trying to get yalls good opinions!

This guy I like said he isn’t sure if he likes me or not, we have hung out a few times. We scheduled a time to hang out alone and he re scheduled twice, then the third time did not even bother telling he couldn’t make it, just texted me to see what was up and asked if he could call me. I told him ok but let him know it was not cool for him to just not tell me anything and not go through with plans. He hasn’t called me….

The thing is, he knows I like him. But im not looking for anything serious, I like hanging out with the guy. Do you think I should continue to keep in touch or wait until he does? Would it be weird if I did or didn’t? I’m thinking too much!

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Kokoro's avatar

I guess I just want to know if I should be taking different action if I want him as a friend vs trying to date him. Is there a difference?

Judi's avatar

Move on.

kenmc's avatar


Kokoro's avatar

Not even worth a friendship? Am I making excuses?

kenmc's avatar

You’re hoping for something that won’t happen. He isn’t interested and you deserve better. Let it go.

LuckyGuy's avatar

He is either not interested in you or he is totally irresponsible. Either way if you persist in going after him, you are setting yourself to have your heart broken.
Just cool it. Talk to him civilly like you would to any other person.
(But you already knew this, didn’t you?)

Bellatrix's avatar

My experience with men is, if they are interested, they call and they are there. He isn’t treating you with respect and people treat us how we let them treat us. You deserve better. As has been said, move on. While you are messing with this guy, the really nice guy that is really into you might not come near or you may totally not notice him.

BarnacleBill's avatar

What @worriedguy said. He sounds high maintenance. He’s telling you he doesn’t want to spend time with you. Believe him and find someone who does.

Kokoro's avatar

Thanks I knew you all would set me straight! <3

john65pennington's avatar

Do what men and women have done for many years in relationships….....wait.

Do not push the issue with him. Let him make the moves.

Men like to be the hunter and not the hunted. Nature made us this way. Absence will draw him to you, if it’s meant to be.

faye's avatar

I think if there’s a question about moving on, you should move on!!

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