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(NSFW) If you were incarcerated - how would you react?

Asked by seazen (6123points) February 1st, 2011

Okay it’s high time I asked something with an NSFW in the title: this one doesn’t even involve boobs. Who said boobs? Damn, now I’m distracted. What was I going to ask? Thinking…

Oh yes: if you should be incarcerated for a very, very lengthy period – would you consider sex with someone of your sex?

Gays, Bi’s and everything in between need not answer. Lurves ya, but this question just aint for you.

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lillycoyote's avatar

I’m thinking I probably would and that it would it would be at least as much about the closeness, the intimacy, the companionship as it would be about the sex. Prison is a pretty cold, lonely and harsh place, I imagine. I think I would eventually reach out for that kind of intimacy and companionship. But I’m a girl, men are so hung up about these things. It might be harder for them.

Cruiser's avatar

Are both my arms cut off??

seazen's avatar

Ahh cruiser: gotta lurve him.

FutureMemory's avatar

No. I am simply not attracted to non-females. Never have been. I think I would vomit if I attempted to get busy with another dude. The thought is revolting.

And please, don’t interpret my comments as being anti-homosexual in any way. I am incredibly pro-gay. My blood boils when people make fag comments or jokes. Giving a rats ass what other people do in the bedroom is pathetic beyond measure – the activity itself, from a sexual desire perspective, is what I find ‘distasteful’ (literally).

wundayatta's avatar

Honestly, I can’t predict what I would do. I’m like @FutureMemory in terms of my lack of interest in homosexual acts. Yet, if that were my only choice, and there was someone I felt close to—even loved, perhaps I might. Still, it’s hard to imagine making that kind of connection with anyone in prison. But on a space flight to Mars? Perhaps.

lucillelucillelucille's avatar

No.It would not interest me.

filmfann's avatar

If both of @Cruiser ‘s arms are cut off, it will make it easier for his cell mates.

I would definitly work on celebacy, and meditate as Gandhi did.
I would also keep razor blades in my ass.

seazen's avatar

I laughed.

Hawaii_Jake's avatar

Censorship! I’m crying foul!

I’ve known two gay men who came out of prison and said it was really quite boring. It was just like the outside world where 95% of the men are straight and are simply not interested in gay men. Finally, there wasn’t very much sex going on at all.

cletrans2col's avatar

Nope. I wouldn’t be able to look at myself in the mirror.

lillycoyote's avatar

@hawaii_jake Well, if that’s the way it is, maybe I’ll change my answer. Or maybe women’s prisons are more fun. Are you talking about long term incarceration or what? 2 to 5 is a lot different than 25 to life, I’m thinking.

Hawaii_Jake's avatar

@lillycoyote : The men I knew were both in for “short” stays in the range of 3 years.

lillycoyote's avatar

@hawaii_jake, the details of the question specifically said ”... if you should be incarcerated for a very, very lengthy period…”, I took that literally, but what the hell, why not have a little fun and a little lovin’ in jail?

It might be nice if more straight women would answer this question but it doesn’t look like that’s happening, or going to happen. Maybe later. Most certainly more men than women are answering. And I only answered because I am completely and unconditionally, almost in a kind of cult-like way (Oy Vey! Anyone know a deprogrammer?), devoted to Zen (A.K.A. @seazen) and only answered the question for him, because he asked it. I generally don’t answer questions about lesbian and homosexual penitentiary sex. Not that it’s bad, or anything. I’m not passing judgement here at all, not at all. I just don’t generally answer these sorts of questions.

JLeslie's avatar

Well, I am straight woman. Here’s the thing, when I think of being incarcerated, sex is the last thing that popped into my mind. When I first saw the question I was thinking of the things I would fear in prison. But, back to your question. I doubt I would have sex with another woman, unless I really began to have some sort of relationship with someone, same as I would be with a man. I have never been attracted to a woman in that way, but I do find woman attractive if that makes sense. What I am saying is the idea of sex with a woman does not disgust me in any way, it just is not someting I yearn to do.

seazen's avatar

@JLeslie You gave me an idea for another q.

And but I do find women attractive if that makes sense. What I am saying is the idea of sex with a woman does not disgust me in any way, has me all hot and bothered…

JLeslie's avatar

@seazen Stop it. Lol.

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