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In your current relationship or marriage, what changes does your s/o need to make to improve your lovelife together?

Asked by john65pennington (29220points) April 25th, 2012

This question is not specifically aimed at the love-making portion of your relationship. It’s about changes that your mate needs to make in him/herself, to make your togetherness more compatible with you. Example: my wife insists that I lower the commode seat for her, after I am finished. This is not a big deal to some people, but it may be a major problem for others. It’s the little things I am looking for that ticks either one of you off and your relationship suffers.

Question: in your current relationship or marriage, what changes does your s/o need to make to improve your lovelife together?

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Blackberry's avatar

She needs to be an entirely different woman. Ba Dum Chhh!

JLeslie's avatar

He needs to spend one hour with me a month in my office helping me go through some paperwork.

ucme's avatar

Nowt, she just has to change…..into something more comfortable, i.e butt naked & i’m good to go.

Charles's avatar

None as the question is asked. Little things, such as not driving fuel efficiently, or using 90% of a container of a food ingredient when preparing a dish (why not just use it all?), leaving the lights on, etc don’t affect our “togetherness more compatible with” me.

cazzie's avatar

He could fall off a bridge on one of his drunken wobbles home either here or abroad. Ba Dum Chhhh!

TexasDude's avatar

The problem with my current relationship needs to start existing. :-/

muppetish's avatar

We both need to communicate more efficiently and remind each other of the positives going in our life to contrast our complaints about our major stressors.

cookieman's avatar

We both have the same problem. To be more available. We’re rarely alone. Ugh.

Simone_De_Beauvoir's avatar

Nothing, really. I guess I do like for him to cook us dinner. I also like it when he takes out the garbage and I don’t have to. I also like for him to put laundry away. Sometimes I do these things, it doesn’t really matter. I don’t think there is anything that he has to do to make me love him more or to feel more together with him. I already think we’re pretty together.

Bellatrix's avatar

Nothing of any substance. He is pretty damn great as far as I am concerned. If he would get things done around here a little faster (like putting in the irrigation system down the side fence) I would be very happy, but it isn’t a major problem. I feel very cherished by my husband. I can’t really want for more than that.

LuckyGuy's avatar

Touch me first.

(Anywhere will do!)

wilma's avatar

Wow, @LuckyGuy , your answer kind of hit me right in the face.
When did I forget that bit of life? I feel kind of stupid when I realize things that should be obvious.

LuckyGuy's avatar

@wilma I’m glad I made a small difference today.

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