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Can you uplift my spirits?

Asked by Pinkpastelrainbow (150points) February 1st, 2013 from iPhone

I’m sad right now and I have no one to talk to. It sounds bad and annoying but I feel just really low.

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Imadethisupwithnoforethought's avatar

give us something to work with

Why are you down?

Pinkpastelrainbow's avatar

I just got an arguement with my boyfriend. His emotional abuse keeps putting me down for a year now but I can’t say anything. I just want happiness. Love spreading.

Judi's avatar

Do you want advice of just light hearted jokes to take your mind off of it?

Imadethisupwithnoforethought's avatar

@Pinkpastelrainbow @Judi Is super nice. She is gonna cheer you up.

I am pretty shallow. I am gonna try to find out your gender and steal you if you are female. If you happen to be male I will ping out to some other users of Fluther. I am determined to put you in a good mood. :)

Judi's avatar

Aww thanks @Imadethisupwithnoforethought.
Now be nice to @Pinkpastelrainbow. Don’t scare her off!

glacial's avatar

This has the makings of a great pajama party. Coed, of course. Who’s making popcorn?

Imadethisupwithnoforethought's avatar

@glacial Again, Judi is super nice, so she is totally gonna bail on any pajama party she knows I am going to. But let us focus on the new person.

Pinkpastelrainbow's avatar

I just want happiness. I just love the joy of other people’s happiness n kindness towards others please :( I hate crying so much for someone who didn’t give me life.

Imadethisupwithnoforethought's avatar

pfft. You have random strangers who want to make you feel better. I don’t know what more you need as evidence that there exists kindness out there. But we will be much better at teasing you like old friends if you tell us a little more about yourself.

Pinkpastelrainbow's avatar

I’m just a curious girl. Maybe emotional. Just talking to someone is fine hahah. It lets me breathe.

Imadethisupwithnoforethought's avatar

So you are a girl then? Let me know when you turn 18. Otherwise it is up to Judi and Glacial to put you in a good mood :).

I tried.

Unbroken's avatar

Welcome to fluther. We bring lurve.

Unbroken's avatar

I’m all for the pajama party. A light hearted comedy. And a sweet faces.

Oh and big fluffy pillows.

I suck at jokes but am the uplifting happy quote master. : )

Buttonstc's avatar

If this doesn’t cheer you up then nothing will. And if you can manage to keep a straight face through it then you’re better than Harvey Korman (the guy playing the patient)

Enjoy !


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Unbroken's avatar

@Pinkpastelrainbow What makes you smile; first thing that comes to mind?

Shippy's avatar

@Pinkpastelrainbow Hi welcome to Fluther :)

If you are in a very bad space, is there not a crises line you can call in your area? (Lot’s of crises lines do chat and they are open 24/7) Or a friend to chat to? Fluther is a question and answer site, so mostly we do that. Perhaps you would like to post your feelings as a question. In that way we can all answer you and perhaps help in some way? Sometimes a different insight does help.

zensky's avatar

A buddhist walks up to a Hotdog vendor and says make me one with everything.

mattbrowne's avatar

Anger is like a fire that we can observe burning down without adding new wood.

Sadness is like rain that can last for a few minutes, hours, or day, but eventually the rain will stop for sure. We can also buy an umbrella, so while the rain is still there, we can keep dry.

ZEPHYRA's avatar

The first thing you can do to lift your spirits is to get out of that toxic relationship. That will be half the battle won. While you are still receiving emotional abuse, your spirits will never be lifted. So go ahead with step 1!

ucme's avatar

A wise move is to place vodka/whiskey on the top shelf away from children…they’re so inquisitive, the little buggers.

AshLeigh's avatar

Welcome to Fluther. :)
Hope you feel better soon.

Kardamom's avatar

I agree with @ZEPHYRA that you must get yourself out of your abusive relationship with your boyfriend. He’s not going to change and you can’t change him, but you can change what you do, and step one is leaving him.

In the meantime, please enjoy this funny video of Dogs in the Snow

Tomorrow, have a talk with your female friends, cousins, your parents, your school counselor or anyone else that you love and trust. Let them know that you are planning to leave your boyfriend (and tell them why) and ask them to help you plan to leave. If you currently live with him, you will need these people to help you with a place to stay, and possible for them to help you pack up and move your stuff out. If this guy is also physically violent, make sure that you get one or two big male friends/relatives/police officer to accompany you when you get your stuff.

If you need practical advice on how to leave your boyfriend, keep asking Q’s on Fluther. Wer’e here to help.

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