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Ever chat with someone on here and really connect?

Asked by Adirondackwannabe (36713points) September 7th, 2013

Just the upside of Mama Cake’s question. Sometimes I’ve talked with someone on fluther and felt totally at ease and we communicate so easily. Share if you’d like.

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Blondesjon's avatar

Tons of times.

you all know who you are. stay golden jellies.

janbb's avatar

Sure – have made many good friends here, some of whom I’ve met in person.

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Imadethisupwithnoforethought's avatar

I fell almost in love with a girl on here once. Then she admitted to me that she was half my age and had lied that she was older.

marinelife's avatar

So many times. It is one of the incredibly special things about this place.

Pachy's avatar

Absolutely. Sometimes, it’s enough to make my heart fluther flutter.

Mama_Cakes's avatar

Yep. Some have left here, but are over on FB. Still keep in touch there.

cheebdragon's avatar

RichardHenry met his wife on fluther.

gailcalled's avatar

I have a baker’s dozen. They’re the reason I stay. (And my continued fascination with Group Process, of course.)

jordym84's avatar

Not yet (at least not to the extent implied in the question).

hearkat's avatar

Do you specifically mean Fluther? This wasn’t in Meta, and the Q you reference asks about “chatting online” with others. I haven’t clicked that strongly on Fluther, but I have on a mobile social site, and I’ve met about 30 of those people in person after interacting online first. I also met my fiancĂ©e on a mobile social network, and we clicked as friends very strongly and after hanging out platonically a couple times, we could not deny the chemistry so we chose to make it a romance.

The internet is a great way to connect with people over common interest whose paths you may not have crossed otherwise.

DWW25921's avatar

Yes. ... That’s all I got.

FutureMemory's avatar

Definitely.

There are 3 or 4 members I’ve talked to on the phone for hours on end. A few others I’ve chatted with on IM, sometimes for up to 12 hours at a time.

Unbroken's avatar

Omg there are so many people I want to respond to certain questions even if they aren’t around or love seeing their various thoughtful humorous and yes even rants.

I talk to a few though I am often remiss about it. There are people I think I could sync with and I met someone who shares with me quite a few opinions on topics and maybe more.

I love it.

Headhurts's avatar

Yes, am I allowed to name him? We get on quite well and he makes me smile. Though ever now and then, he goes a little weird and won’t contact me for a while, but he always finds his way back.

longgone's avatar

Just once, but it was fun. :)

downtide's avatar

Just one but she doesn’t really count because I talked her into joining Fluther recently and we were already “connected” very strongly for 2 years before that.

dxs's avatar

I’ve had some conversations with other Jellies but not to the level of what some other people have said.

hearkat's avatar

I see that the post has now been moved to Meta, so I suppose my reply is no longer valid.

ucme's avatar

Not really no, but then that’s not what i’m after. There are & have been some pretty cool folks here & I get along with a lot of you, but connect, in it’s truest form? Nah!

Hypocrisy_Central's avatar

Yeah, but 97% of them are no longer here, been ran off by all the “love” found here. ;-P

dxs's avatar

Actually, I remember a long time ago having a pretty long discussion with one Jelly. She’s no longer here, though.

augustlan's avatar

Many times. Some of them have become very good friends.

KNOWITALL's avatar

Yes but not many. Too many don’t seem very nice so it turns me off.

Paradox25's avatar

I like the site, but like my experiences with several other sites I don’t think many of the people on here are the type that I would get along with offline. I’m extremely liberal, but not a fluther liberal, and there are quite a few issues that I vividly disagree with most jellies on.

There’s only one site where I keep in contact with a few members on concerning my email, because we share similar interests on a specific topic. There are also a few jellies that I keep in contact with whom asked me for advice pertaining to a problem that they had. There were a few older jellies that I was somewhat close with on here, but they eliminated their accounts.

Ayesha's avatar

Yes. I’ve talked to a few jellies. Really smart and sweet most of them.

jca's avatar

I never came to Fluther looking for friends. I came, searching thru Google, because my cats had fleas 6 years ago (2007) and I wanted some answers as to how to get rid of the fleas. I stayed and I have made many friends, men and women, who I suspect I’ll be in touch with thru Fluther and FB until the day I die.

Kardamom's avatar

Yes, and you know who you are LOL.

Smitha's avatar

I ued to chat regularly with two people on Askville.Unfortunately they were not able to make it here. Still we chat on FB or atleast keep in touch through mails. Miss them here.Hope to make new friends here!

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