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Why do people say, "I need a hug" as if it would make a difference?

Asked by Aster (20023points) February 16th, 2014

People on Facebook say, “I need a hug! Post this on my page and I’ll know you’ve hugged me.” To me, a hug is near meaningless unless delivered in times of great joy or sorrow by one of my family members. But a hug by a Facebook friend, to me, would have zero affects on me. Am I unusual? Or do you get something good out of one hug from any source whatsoever? I will admit a snuggle from a pet is nice, though. Today, as an example, an old friend of my husband came over and said, “I need a hug.” I said, “you do?” and he said, “yes; I read somewhere we need SIX hugs a day.” Nice man.

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Cruiser's avatar

Hugs in real life are some of life’s most enjoyable moments and (((hugs))) online can convey similar warm fuzzies to those who give and get them in earnest.

Here is a big Sunday have a great day hug for you @Aster (((hug)))

filmfann's avatar

While it is nice to know people are sympathetic to your feelings, nothing compares to a real life hug.

Aster's avatar

@Cruiser thanks a lot. That was really great. lol

Berserker's avatar

I guess it’s the intent behind it, so the person knows they are cared for.

longgone's avatar

Maybe they are hoping to be asked what the problem is.

gorillapaws's avatar

@Aster I agree. Online hugs are pretty pointless. As @longgone says, they’re probably just looking for someone to reach out and talk about whatever’s bothering them. I would never do this on a social network like Facebook, where your personal information is a commodity for them to sell to the highest bidder. I would probably just pick up the phone and call my family or a best friend.

KNOWITALL's avatar

Because for some of us it makes a crappy day a little better. It lets you feel like you’re not alone. :) <hugs> here means I’d give you one in RL if I could.

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