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(NSFW) Do you care whether a girl has large or small labia?

Asked by dopeguru (1917points) March 21st, 2015

My labia(lips of the vagina) is large, and I’m starting to feel a bit self-conscious about it because I’ve heard from two male friends that they’d never eat a women out if their vaginas didn’t look like there perfect porn-star, pink, small one.

Overall, what do you like and why does it matter if a girl has a larger labia?

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rojo's avatar

I have never had a problem with it/them. Variety is the spice of life, as they say.

gorillapaws's avatar

All lips welcome (as long as they’re clean—and of legal age)!

cheebdragon's avatar

I don’t care….mostly because I’m not into vaginas. Im good with mine and I don’t need to see any others.

LDRSHIP's avatar

I’ve found a woman who trims or is shaved, clean, good hygiene down below far more important than the shape. I mean that is like women asking for all guys to have a “perfect” penis.

I do appreciate a nice size clit, as I like to suck on it – Anyways the labia (learned a new word today) never paid attention to it honestly.

jerv's avatar

My take is that they should be happy to even be in a position where they can see your labia in the first place.

Earthbound_Misfit's avatar

I’m sure there are men who might have preferences regarding how a woman’s genitals look but as @jerv suggests, most would be happy to have access to the genitals of a woman they fancy. I doubt they’re spending too much time evaluating whether her labia are too big or too small. We all look different. There’s no ‘right’ size. Try not to get fixated on how you think other women look. You’re probably wrong. Instead, learn to love the equipment you have.

hominid's avatar

@dopeguru: “because I’ve heard from two male friends that they’d never eat a women out if their vaginas didn’t look like there perfect porn-star, pink, small one.”

Sometimes it is best to just dump your entire group of friends and start clean.

jca's avatar

Don’t let your fussy friends make you self conscious. If what you have is not to their liking, they always have the option of moving along to find someone else. They will find that if they are too fussy, they’re probably not going to find many partners that meet their high standards. Likewise, if someone were to demand certain penis size or type, your friends very possibly would not “measure up” if you get my drift. It’s not about the parts, it’s about the person.

ucme's avatar

I’m like any woman who prefers “cut” to “uncut” on a penis, I like a smaller labia, simple as.

1TubeGuru's avatar

In my opinion a large labia can look pretty like a flower.

livelaughlove21's avatar

Men are a lot of talk. If a girl they like (and sometimes even if they don’t particularly like her) is willing to have sex with them, they won’t care if she’s got large or small labia. Most guys, especially young guys, are just happy that someone is willing to fuck them. What they say to their friends about their preferences doesn’t mean anything once they’re in the bedroom.

Don’t sweat it.

CugelTheClueless's avatar

No, though I find shaved pubes and genital body art to be turn-offs but not necessarily deal-breakers (q.v. previous comment inter alia, mutatis mutanda, et cetera, nov shmoz kapop).

SavoirFaire's avatar

Nope. Couldn’t care less. What you’ve really learned from this is that these particular male friends are either self-conscious liars or terrible lovers.

Adirondackwannabe's avatar

@dopeguru You’re over thinking sex way too much. We’re guys. In the words of Dave Barry, if you’re in the bed with us, that’s all we need. If you trust me enough to get between your legs and do what I consider one of the most intimate acts I can do with a woman, do you think I’m down there with a scorecard? As long as your labia don’t bite back I’m happy. Relax lady, please?

cheebdragon's avatar

Any guy who has their standards set at porn star, probably isn’t getting much (if any) action. Unless they are filthy fucking rich and can afford those standards, it just means they have watched too much porn and know nothing about real women.

Besides, there are porn stars for every kind of fetish.

Hypocrisy_Central's avatar

Most guys, especially young guys, are just happy that someone is willing to fuck them.
Word worth 100 lurve, if it were possible

Hard to tell sight unseen….pics? ~~~

Seriously, for me it is somewhere in the middle first, just peeking out with a slight flair. Then I would say those that are barely a slit, but shaved also doesn’t look very ”womanly”, the last would be large, only because most of those I have seen, and it is just me, then large lower hip lips looked like some large Venus fly trap that was about to swallow you up. The thought there was ao much to nibble was intriguing though. A big clit with it somewhat evens things out, certainly a larger target to get her quaking like a Jell-O mold.

kritiper's avatar

I suppose if they were so large as to be able to stick one in each ear they might be a bit on the large size.

cheebdragon's avatar

At what point is it just a micro penis?

RocketGuy's avatar

As with most guys here, I would “be happy to even be in a position where they can see your labia in the first place.” quote from @jerv But given a choice, generous labia would allow me to bury my finger in it and slide lengthwise during foreplay, which is a nice, warm feeling.

majorbacon's avatar

Judging a woman on her labia is like judging a guy on his scrotum…... Doesn’t really effect the whole experience so why bother

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