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What does feeling like a man or like a woman mean?

Asked by flo (13313points) August 13th, 2017

If a person is has been living alone on an island by him/herself, clearly, they can’t feel like the opposite gender. So, what does it mean?

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zenvelo's avatar

Those expressions do not mean that one feels at any moment like the other gender.

When a woman says she feels like a woman, it is generally understood she feels loving, nurturing, feminine and sexual desirable.

When a man says he feels like a man, it is generally understood to mean he feels strong, powerful, and sexually strong.

When a trans person says “I feel like a—-, ” the person is expressing the feeling of being a gender.

rebbel's avatar

My beard, my physique, my power, my birth certificate: they tell me I’m a man.
Where it concerns my emotions, my feelings, my thinking, I not so much feel male, nor female…, just human.

josie's avatar

Regarding how it FEELS, as a man, I can say it probably gets down to aggression,territoriality and attractiveness to females.
Beards and the fact you got a dick and not a vagina and such have little to do with testerone influenced feelings

PullMyFinger's avatar

I know what a ‘double-reverse’ is, and what ‘4th and goal from the one’ means.

My wife makes fantastic lasagna.
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I think that’s about it…..

Dutchess_III's avatar

Well, you said “If a person is has been living alone on an island by him/herself, clearly, they can’t feel like the opposite gender. ” Does it follow that they can’t feel like their gender either?

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flo's avatar

If a person says _“Inside, I feel like a WASP
(https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/White_Anglo-Saxon_Protestant,) eventhough my exterior is. ....so, I need to become a WASP, surgically, what would that be about?
People can’t reduce their identity to their exterior, their anatomy, biological makeup. Otherwise Hitler was a Hitler because he was a male. Or the people who saved people from being victims of Nazis, it’s because they are female? male? German, Jewish, .....(see it doesn’t work)
@rebbel,
“Where it concerns my emotions, my feelings, my thinking, I not so much feel male, nor female…, just human. ” Bingo.

flo's avatar

….Editing above: ”...so, I need to become a WASP, surgically.” What would that be about?”

Dutchess_III's avatar

You can’t change your nationality surgically. If you’re a white Anglo Saxon that’s your nationality. If you’re African American you can’t change that.
If you’re a protestant you just change religions. That doesn’t take surgery.

DominicY's avatar

There are a lot of things people wouldn’t experience if they were raised alone on a desert line, but alas, our “ethics” don’t allow us to experiment with this!

Would a person raised on a desert island even develop a normal sexual attraction? How could a man who’s never seen or even known the existence of females develop an attraction to them? All humans are born with the capacity to learn a language, but if a person grows up isolated on a desert island, they won’t learn one. (And rare examples of “feral children” show that they can’t really be taught one later either; they’ve “missed the window”).

Muad_Dib's avatar

I’ve had the luxury, in my life, to never have to worry about whether my outsides matched my insides.

So, I have no idea what it’s like to feel like a gender, because I just feel like me.

Likewise, I don’t know what it’s like to feel judged for my skin color, or my nationality, or my religion, because all of those things are, for me, a socially acceptable default (or at least have the appearance of same).

That’s called “privilege”.

The fact that you don’t understand those feelings due to a lack of perspective does not mean they do not exist for others.

flo's avatar

@DominicY,
I can’t disagree with you. I guess it’s not a good idea to refer to island/alone thing. But please answer the OP.

@Muad_Dib Pease answer rhe OP. What does it mean to_ feel like a woman _ unless it’s liking decoration related things, nurturing kids , needing to be protected by men, to have doors of cars opened for them and on and on, and what does it mean to feel like a man unless it is the usual “manly” (stereotypical) things?

Dutchess_III's avatar

She can’t answer. Neither can I. Every one feels like themselves. We don’t know what other people feel like.

Are you looking for stereotype of what people think a woman or man should feel like

Muad_Dib's avatar

I believe my answer was relevant, clear, and easy to understand, in stark contrast to your questions and subsequent responses.

flo's avatar

@Muad_Dib Re. your I don’t know what it’s like to feel judged for my skin color, or my nationality, or my religion, ... ”
That’s about being discriminated by other people, not about how a person feels without anyone else’s input/influence.

By the way @Muad_Dib “she can’t answer”? Are you ok with someone else speaking for you?

Dutchess_III's avatar

I was trying, yet again, to make it clear to you.

Let’s turn it around. You are female. So what does being a female feel like to you?

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