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Are you making your life simpler or more complicated?

Asked by flutherother (34537points) November 8th, 2022

I am tending towards the simpler life as I get older. How about you?

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rebbel's avatar

Simpler as well.
No more hiding my opinions, speak and act from the heart, spread love.

Zaku's avatar

Both.

I jettison and/or ignore/neglect things that do not spark joy.

I add things that I am interested in.

JLoon's avatar

Yes.

When it comes to my life plan ... there isn’t one.

So far so good.

KNOWITALL's avatar

Definately more simple. My bp is now in a normal range for the first time in 10 years.
Like @zaku, if it doesn’t spark joy, I re-home it.

cookieman's avatar

Trying my damndest to simplify.

janbb's avatar

Trying to make it more simple. Side question, I wonder who this Joy is that they keep trying to spark?

jca2's avatar

Simpler. Last year, I retired. Also, at the holiday season, I told two friends who were and are big on gift giving (and receiving) that I wanted to not exchange Christmas presents any longer. I asked a question about it here, because one of the friends responded by saying “we’ll figure something out” which really pissed me off. I don’t need anything, if I need anything I buy it, I don’t want to be shopping for people for the sake of giving them gifts, I don’t have the money to spend on gifts. The friend who said “we’ll think of something” works at a large department store chain so she gets stuff very cheap, after sales, employee discounts and cash back deals. She will also say “I love giving gifts.” That’s wonderful, but I don’t feel the same. After the holiday season, I reminded both of them that this year, we’ve decided to stick to it.

I retired over a year ago, which means less stress, less dealing with office politics, and better sleep. Less money in my pocket, but also less money spent on gas, clothes and food.

I also am seeing friends less, and if friends are nasty, gossipy or not my style, I try not to see them at all. They may say “we should go to lunch sometime” and I agree, and then never get in touch lol.

mazingerz88's avatar

More simple. But not by choice.

jca2's avatar

This was my q from last year about exchanging holiday gifts with friends:

https://www.fluther.com/229521/is-it-really-important-to-you-to-exchange-holiday-gifts-with/

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