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What does it mean when a guy winks at you mulitiple times?

Asked by skittles (110points) July 16th, 2010

Basically I met this guy a few weeks ago, and a couple days ago was the second time i saw him ever. And then as a flirtatious way of saying hello i jumped in his arms and hugged him because i haven’t seen him in a while.

The next day, I never expected to see him again but when I did he winked at me from across the room and then came over and ruffled my hair.

The next winking scenario when a group of us were talking about brownies and he didn’t hear something and said “I taste like brownies?” and then I said: if you tasted like brownies you would be with me alll day” and that was when he winked.

The next scenario was when I was talking on my phone (were not supposed to at work) and he winked at me when I looked at him.

And there are other times when he winked at me, and it was obvious that he didn’t have anything in his eye.

Is he really flirting? Or is he just being playful and everything?
By the way, he is only a couple years older than me.

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19 Answers

gailcalled's avatar

He has a uncontrollable twitch.

FutureMemory's avatar

He wants you.

zenele's avatar

His eye stutters.

jca's avatar

if you met a guy a few weeks ago, and are already jumping in his arms, then you are giving him a signal that you want him, and so he is giving you a signal that he wants you too. if you don’t want him, you should refrain from jumping in his arms. usually people are not so physical with someone they don’t know that well.

Blackberry's avatar

It means he is extremely lame.

Cruiser's avatar

It means there is a brutal wind storm and he has dust in his eyes…

Dr_Lawrence's avatar

It means he likes you and wants to get your attention.

perspicacious's avatar

He has a nervous twitch. Ignore it.

mattbrowne's avatar

A fruit fly landed on his eyeball?

Jabe73's avatar

Obviously he likes you. He is probally waiting for some indication as to whether you like him or not. Since he is making it so obvious you need to give him some indication as to whether you are interested or not.

Different people have different ways of reacting in certain situations and liking someone is no exception. I’m pretty sure he likes you.

jrpowell's avatar

Sounds like you need to ask this guy to a movie.

I’m old.. Not trying hurts a lot more than failure.

BoBo1946's avatar

A man went in for an interview for a job as a sales man. The interview went
quite well, but the trouble was that he kept winking.
The interviewer said, “Although you have a lot of the qualities we are looking
for, the fact that you keep winking could put a lot of our potential customers
“Oh, that is no problem,” said the man. “I stop winking if I take a couple of
“Show me,” said the interviewer.
So the man reached into his pocket. Embarrassingly he pulled out loads of
condoms of every variety – ribbed, flavoured, coloured and everything before he
found the packet of aspirin. He took an aspirin and soon stopped winking.
The interviewer said, “I do not think we could employ someone who would be
womanizing all over the country.”
“Excuse me!” exclaimed the man, “I am a happily married man, not a womanizer!”
“Well, how do you explain all the condoms, then?” asked the interviewer.
The man replied, “Have you ever gone into a drug store, winking, and asked for a
packet of aspirin?”

Pied_Pfeffer's avatar

Tread lightly on what you read into it until you get to know him a bit better. @gailcalled could very well be right. There was a male participant in a workshop I conducted who had this condition. The 1st time I noticed it was during a presentation and it threw me off for a second. When a few other facilitators mentioned it (including one male), we came to the conclusion that it wasn’t a flirtatious signal.

Jabe73's avatar

@Pied_Pfeffer He did other things besides the winking. This would be one huge coincidence then once you combine everything she said about what happened.

ucme's avatar

What a fucking winker ;¬}

Pied_Pfeffer's avatar

@Jabe73 Oh, I’m not disputing his interest in her…just that it could be a condition that might be misconstrued. Even the guy from our workshop had to do more than use his condition to catch the attention of his wife.


Egads, he’s flirting with me? Lol.

meagan's avatar

Maybe hes having a stroke.

jca's avatar

“I can’t understand why he would wink at me after i jumped in his lap.”

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