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[NSFW] If you do this a lot, does it hurt? See inside.

Asked by Shippy (9870points) August 13th, 2012

OK, I can’t really ask anyone else its too embarrassing! So I would rather be embarrassed on Fluther. The question relates to both men and women. If you have a lot of sex, does it hurt after a while? Or is it just me? I thought for a while it could be an age thing, you know atrophy all that (I know!!), but I do recall always being this way. I do use lube, but just regular lubes, are there any special ones? I’d really appreciate any feedback.

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Adirondackwannabe's avatar

@Shippy I so needed a question like this today. If you do a lot of anything it can hurt. I don’t know if you’re male or female, but yes, you can irritate the surfaces involved either way.

AshlynM's avatar

That all depends. Everyone is different. The size of “IT” may be a contributing factor in whether sex hurts after a while. It might depend on how long you do it as well, like consecutively.

ucme's avatar

No, because my penis is like He-Man’s sword, inde-fuckin-structible.
“I have the power!!”

OpryLeigh's avatar

Sometimes if we have had sex every day for a lot of days (if we are on holiday for example, we will often have sex at least once but often twice a day for more than 7 days) it starts to feel a little bit sore down there. Usually a day or two off lets it all settle down.

Shippy's avatar

@AshlynM and @Leanne1986 Thanks for your responses, at least I’m normal!!

Shippy's avatar

@ucme ha-ha!.. not!

bookish1's avatar

Yep, I am often sore after especially good sessions.

If you’re not using silicone toys, I highly suggest silicone lube. You just need a little bit and it lasts FOREVER.

Shippy's avatar

@bookish1 Thanks great advice.

ucme's avatar

@Shippy ho-ho….yes way!

majorrich's avatar

I reckon if it was a job, such as working in the online or video porn industries, you could build up a higher tolerance or callouses (lol). Or use industrial strength lube, say Mobil 1 or straight PTFE to keep things sliding smoothly down there. I once asked a model online if they ever got sore, but didn’t get a response.

jca's avatar

This is why they invented lube. Also, like @Leanne1986 said, taking a break for a day or two helps. However, when you’re going at it for a few hours, it can get sore from the friction.

Ponderer983's avatar

@Shippy Since you are a female, this is quite the norm. too much sex at once, a large guy, having sex the first time after not having sex in a while. These are all situations where I have been sore afterwards. And after having a lot of sex, it’s just consistent friction on the same area that isn’t used to that much sensation. Completely normal! I would be concerned if you didn’t feel that way lol.

King_Pariah's avatar

I know that after several back to back goes at it my balls start aching, so yeah, sure.

woodcutter's avatar

The toe cramps are a bitch.

ETpro's avatar

@Shippy What hurts is when aging gets you to the point where it hurts because you can’t do it. :-)

augustlan's avatar

I have Sjogren’s syndrome, so I (literally) feel your pain. Here and here are some things that may help with vaginal dryness.

Shippy's avatar

Thanks so much all. Will look at the links too. On mobile now so excuse any typos etc!!

Shippy's avatar

@augustian. Awesome links thank you.

LuckyGuy's avatar

Am I the only one here who’s just a little envious?

Shippy's avatar

@luckyguy ha ha.

laurenkem's avatar

@LuckyGuy <raising hand> Nope!

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