Any words of encouragement to kick my (ex) boyfriend out?
My (ex) boyfriend & I live together & have been together a year. Today he tells me he is not happy being in a relationship. He said he doesn’t want to feel like he’s tied down anymore. We both agreed to break-up. He wants me to take a morning after pill to ensure I’m not pregnant. I’m not having any pregnancy symptoms & have been using birth control. He goes on to tell me he’s not happy being with me because I don’t know how to play around with him. I’ve told him because he plays rough & hurts me. He seems not to care because he continues to do it. Also, when he plays around he calls me a slut, ho. I’ve asked him to please stop calling me that. He then says that I’m no fun & boring. He seems to be critical of most things I do. He also doesn’t show me affection. He doesn’t like to hug, hold hands, kiss or cuddle. I’ve expressed to him all those are important to me. When I try to hold his hand or even lay my hand on his arm while sitting next to him, he pushes my hand away and tells me to never do that again. He says it’s because he wasn’t showed how to love as a child by his mom. I try to show him, but he doesn’t want to learn. Well, he’s suppose to move out this Saturday (it’s easier if we wait til then). Til then I have to see him everyday. He’s already called me a couple times today saying he’s having second thoughts about leaving. (and he thinks his exgf put a voodoo hex on him to not be happy) I have stayed strong & told him he’s still moving out. I love him, so I feel like I may fall weak and take him back. Any words of strenghth and encouragement to stand firm?