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(NSFW) For those of you who have tried it, what does anal sex feel like? Is it more enjoyable than vaginal sex?

Asked by Mama_Cakes2 (1441 points ) August 10th, 2010

When I ask “what does it feel like?”, I’m not looking for “it feels great. Or, it’s uncomfortable”. I am asking you to describe the sensation.

Thanks!

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Simone_De_Beauvoir's avatar

I don’t think it’s more enjoyable than vaginal sex but it is as enjoyable, for me. It hurts in the beginning more than when having vaginal sex and my partner has to move slower but eventually, it really feels amazing and different – I suppose if you’ve never had anal sex, you can think about that endorfin high moment you have when you’ve pooped out a very good poop and extend it to the entire time you’re having anal sex. I also enjoy that it requires extra lubrication w/saliva as, for some reason, it really turns me on.

MrItty's avatar

A female friend of mine (who has absolutely no TMI barrier with me) complained to me once that she and her bf tried anal for the first time because she was on her period. And that afterwards, she was bleeding from two orifices at once, and wasn’t happy about it.

Blackberry's avatar

@MrItty Dayum! That hurts just reading it.

I was the pitcher, because I’m a guy, and it felt great. You have to use a lot of lube, though. It feels good for the guy because it is tighter. The man has to be respectful and go slow for the woman as well, or else it just hurts her a lot.

plethora's avatar

If it’s good for her, then it’s great for me. I like it best from the front with her legs pulled way back. Going very very slow and well lubed is part of the fun. Very tight, but only at the entry. Not like vaginal where tight all the way.

MyNewtBoobs's avatar

It feels different. Kinda like the difference between him kissing your mouth, and kissing your neck.

Facade's avatar

It feels fuller and more intense than vaginal sex.

Dewey420's avatar

oh you mean like in the back of a volkswagon? lol that never gets old for me.
Booty Duty is awkward to me, but like @plethora said.. if she likes it..whatever..but i can only take so much of the “ooo, ow ow ow, EASY!”

CMaz's avatar

It all depends on the anal you are sexing.
Some are like a well lucubrated vagina. Not being able to tell the difference, pounding it as hard and as rough as you want, and they want.

Others, you can’t get past the sphincter.

Jude's avatar

Spend a good deal of time making them feel relaxed. Using your fingers/tongue, circle around the sphincter. When they’re relaxed and you can tell that they’re ready, enter slowly and gently.

I prefer to give than receive. The giving is a big turn on for me, and I’m a lady. I’m all about ass play.

You have to be careful in which direction your thrust (or plunge the dildo in). From experience, towards the front part of your ass, it feels better. Angling it towards the back part (think doggie (you’re giving) and you’re tilting the dick (dildo) upwards), it can be painful.

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Atheros's avatar

I have admit that I prefer anal to vaginal, oral or just anything else.
For me it’s like the peak of what you can “achieve” with a girl when having sex. Personally I think it feels GREAT! As already mentioned, the thingy is tighter, so your man gets a better squeeze, that what makes it feel great.
Also as mentioned above, use a lot of lube. Anal won’t feel worse because of using the lube, in my opinion, the more the better (you can do it faster).
Be really patient with the girl, talk to her all the time, especially if it’s for the first time.
From my experience I can say that the only part that ‘could really hurt’ is the ‘first push up her rear’, then things become smoother and smoother.
If you’ll like it, try ejaculating inside it… that’ll be the best end of sex you can ever imagine!
Enjoy mate! Hope I was sensational enough :)

Blackberry's avatar

In addition, if the condom breaks, you don’t have to worry about pregnancy.

Atheros's avatar

And to prevent condom breaking, just don’t wear one! Feels much better ;)

Blackberry's avatar

@Atheros Indeed :) But I just have a wierd thing about you-know-what on my you-know-who lol. It does feel ten times better, though.

plethora's avatar

@Blackberry Ever the descriptive one….:) Take a chance!!!!! Keep a wash cloth close by.

Blackberry's avatar

@plethora Oh, I’ve done it before, when you want it, you just seem to forget about your little hang ups lol.

jca's avatar

from the girl’s (my) perspective, to be on the safe side the girl can do an enema before hand, if she knows in advance. i love anal sex. to me, i would describe the anticipation as like going on a roller coaster. you know it’s going to be really different, a little scary, great, something to look forward to, but a little nerve wracking. to me, the guy has to go slow, use fingers and lots of lube. it helps if the girl is turned on, i think, because then she’s more open.

jazmina88's avatar

I admit, I dont do it anymore…..During sexual peak # 2.
It takes alot to get me to open up. pal of 30 years, gets slapped. or punished. He’s too big.
the hot shaman from TX is about the only one I would let go there.

No fun for me. I think it’s icky.

Simone_De_Beauvoir's avatar

@Blackberry uhh, yeah you should still worry about pregnancy…hello?

zwingli's avatar

How would one try and bring up the conversation with a partner?

Blackberry's avatar

@Simone De Beauvoir Whoa…really?

Simone_De_Beauvoir's avatar

@Blackberry Well you can’t possibly think that just because you deposit most of the cargo into the well, that some won’t spill out upon pull out and fall into the canyon

plethora's avatar

@Simone_De_Beauvoir Exceptional and entertaining discretion..:)

zwingli's avatar

Practicals would help.

Blackberry's avatar

@Simone De Beauvoir Oooohhhh yeeaah….....Brain fart, it happens.

FutureMemory's avatar

@jjmah Is that you in your avatar?

zwingli's avatar

So no one can give me some practical way touring it up?

RANGIEBABY's avatar

I can’t really give you an answer on this one.
I have never been on the receiving end of “stick it in your ear”.

Blackberry's avatar

@zwingli I would bring it up when you and your partner are in a comfortable environment like during pillow talk or something. Then just ask sort of like it is on a whim, “What do you think about anal?”.

zwingli's avatar

@RANGIEBABY do you mean stick it in your ear or rear?

phil196662's avatar

Make sure you Go before you get filled-up and use plenty of lube! feels like there is more than there is so take it easy…

RANGIEBABY's avatar

@zwingli Apparently you have not heard of the Italian meaning of Stick it in your ear.
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=stick%20it%20in%20your%20ear"

FutureMemory's avatar

@zwingli So no one can give me some practical way to bring it up?

“Yo, have you ever wondered what it would be like to take it up the butt?”

plethora's avatar

@FutureMemory Clever and direct…:)

CMaz's avatar

And, be prepared for a “Butt Truffle” now and then. Just part of the show.

Simone_De_Beauvoir's avatar

@ChazMaz I learned a new term today. Butt truffle…I love it

Atheros's avatar

@Blackberry Yep, you made a good point. Fortunately THAT hasn’t happened to me yet.
That has to be a shitty experience, literary! :D

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