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Women: What does a guy have to do to win your heart?

Asked by poisonedantidote (21675points) July 24th, 2011

Maybe you are in love, maybe you used to be, maybe you hope to be. Either way, what qualities in a man would make it easy to love them.

Lets assume we are starting from scratch with a total stranger.

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poisonedantidote's avatar

Don’t be shy… I see you all lurking there.

ANef_is_Enuf's avatar

I don’t know.
The people that I have loved romantically in my life have all had different qualities that made me fall for them. I could make a list of random qualities that I like, but it’s hardly a guarantee.

I might have written a more thoughtful response if you hadn’t rushed me. :P

King_Pariah's avatar

Why would they spill this secret? It’d make the game too easy. lol

yankeetooter's avatar

Treat me kindly, act the gentleman, woo me with their charm and humor…make me feel special.

King_Pariah's avatar

See?! it’s just the stereotypical answer (no offense @yankeetooter)

Blackberry's avatar

Well, it really is what @yankeetooter said, but you’re forgetting the thing that gets you in the door: Chemistry. You can be all of those things, but if she doesn’t like you, she doesn’t like you.

Aethelflaed's avatar

There’s not really some set of steps guys can do to win my heart. My heart isn’t some objective trophy at the end of a race. It all depends on the individual. Each person has different qualities that I like about them, and there are a few ones I always want – but that’s just for me, those won’t be for all women.

Berserker's avatar

I don’t know. Last time I dated someone, I was the one doing everything I could to win his heart lol.

But if I have to imagine, someone who wants to be with me because of who I am, and thinks we’d rock together. It has to be a win win thing I guess, although I’m sure I could have given a better example. But I’m selfish, so I can’t. XD

If he can cook, that’s always awesome.

Bellatrix's avatar

I don’t know. When I look at the men I have dated and really fallen for, they are all different. Quite different and with traits that if you had said “would you fall for a guy who was…” I would have quite possibly said no.

They have all been intelligent, confident and funny. I have met other intelligent, confident and funny men who have not done it for me though so…...... yep, chemistry, whatever it is, matters.

Mariah's avatar

Yep, I don’t know. I’ve never been in love despite having been treated kindly by my ex. I hope I’m capable of it.

lonelydragon's avatar

Make me laugh and treat me kindly.

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