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Quick medical question?

Asked by Kairi (794points) October 20th, 2014

I am is a few days late on my monthly. I have been getting cramps on and off like I am going to get it but then don’t. I was also nauseous a few days last week (though it went away after I ate and had water), and have been a little more tired then usual. Could something be wrong OTHER then me being pregnant? My boyfriend is freaking out because the video game versions of us in Tomodachi life (a 3DS game) just had a baby. I’ve tried looking things up online and haven’t found anything, and I’m not sexually active and haven’t been for months since he had to move back to NYC. I’m thinking I have a stomach bug and it’s just the giant load of stress placed on my lately that is stalling it. Any ideas? Google and medical sites aren’t helping much >.>

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talljasperman's avatar

Take a home pregnancy test to be sure.

Kairi's avatar

yeah, I’ll try that later int he week when my parents aren’t around because they’ll kill me if they find out. I’m pretty sure I’m not though. I’ve never been entirely regular

talljasperman's avatar

I hope you aren’t forced in to anything that you don’t want to do.

Mariah's avatar

If you haven’t been sexually active in months how could you possibly be pregnant?

Kairi's avatar

@talljasperman I wasn’t. my parents are just…well insane

Kairi's avatar

@Mariah technically the end of August or so was the last time we did anything together, so it could be possible, but he’s kind of….a paranoid dummy…he thinks the GAME means that something happened and I’m just ignoring him

JLeslie's avatar

Sounds pregnant. Go buy a pregnancy test.

It could be just a weird month, but if you haven’t had sex in two or three months then you would be two or three months pregnant and then you really need to know if your pregnant.

Do your breasts hurt?

dappled_leaves's avatar

Take a pregnancy test. If you really haven’t had sex since August, it will be able to tell you right away.

Here2_4's avatar

Stress, illness, even moving to a new climate can have an effect.
Check with your doctor. There are numerous possibilities.
http://www.pregnancy.org/question/illness-can-affect-your-menstrual-cycle
https://www.womentowomen.com/menstruation/the-menstrual-cycle/
http://www.ehow.com/about_5113442_causes-abnormal-menstrual-cycle.html
You can read what I am talking about in these. Some are more technical than others. None of us can tell you what is the cause. Only your doctor can do that. All we can do is tell you what It could be.
Pregnancy seems to be a possibility, from what you have said, but so are many other things. For instance, a yeast infection. Several years back, it was learned that Mr. Bubble bath soap was causing yeast infections for many women. There are numerous ways that an infection can occur. Not all are only sexually transmitted. Common products are often found to be the cause.
I am very suspicious of stress in your case. See your doctor. so you can be certain.
If you find out you are, or not, if you want to message me, feel free any time.

Kairi's avatar

I’m about 99% certain its stress. between my parents, my boyfriend, my friends and their drama, and my work, I’ve got a good few thousand pounds of stress on me. Thanks for the links!

marymargaret's avatar

Sorry, but it’s kind of hilarious that your boyfriend thinks your video game avatars are any sort of divine indication that you are indeed pregnant.

Kairi's avatar

@marymargaret no need to apologize lol but trust me, he’s said stupider things….

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