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rebbel's avatar

Would you go to a manicure salon that has no women employed?

Asked by rebbel (35549points) December 26th, 2018

If yes, why?
If no, what’s wrong with male manicures?
And what would you have the guys do to you?

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chyna's avatar

The few times I have had a pedicure, I’ve never had a manicure, by a male, they don’t shut up. I go to relax, not have inane conversation with someone I don’t know. So no, I don’t go to male pedicurists if I can avoid it.

KNOWITALL's avatar

I hate fake nails, so I don’t do that, but if I did a mani for a special occasion, I certainly wouldn’t mind hiring a male, and actually enjoy their company more than I do most women.

The third sentence sounds creepy btw. I would have them do a mani. Massage my cuticles, trim nails, buff and polish.

*And only if the salon didn’t reek of chemicals like many do.

LadyMarissa's avatar

I don’t do professional mani/pedi’s…I do my own!!! IF I ever break down & opt to go professional, I certainly wouldn’t discriminate due to gender!!!

Love_my_doggie's avatar

Sure. Why not?

Dutchess_lll's avatar

I have never, ever had a manicure. When I was younger it may have made a difference. I’d have concerns over the sensuality of it. I don’t think I’d feel comfortable.
Today I wouldn’t care. I don’t have to worry about getting sexually harassed so much any more.

Love_my_doggie's avatar

^^^ You really need to treat yourself, V. Manicures are marvelously luxurious. Also, a pedicure look so nice during the summer, when we’re all wearing open-toed footwear (Is summer almost here? Oh, I guess not…the winter solstice was just a few days ago. Drats!)

LadyMarissa's avatar

^ Summer will be here sooner than you think!!! I’ve already pulled out my favorite sandals in anticipation!!!

Dutchess_lll's avatar

I do take better care of my feet in summer, but since I’m mostly barefooted that’s not saying much. I can only imagine a pediperson taking one look at my feet and run screaming out the door!
Summer will be here next Thursday. And then I will have to shave too. :/

Love_my_doggie's avatar

^^^ Believe me, pedicurists have seen much worse. Feet can get wicked nasty, and nothing shocks the professionals.

This springtime, I’m going to find a nice salon in your hometown and send you a gift certificate for a pedicure. I’m going to do this, for the simple reasons that (a) you’ll need one and love it (b) I like you.

Dutchess_lll's avatar

Well that is awesome! For you, I will go. :D

JLeslie's avatar

That would seem a little odd to me, but it’s not odd to me to see Vietnamese men working in a nail salon, and I’ve had a man do my nails more than once, although I rarely get my nails done, maybe twice a year.

Almost always the man in the salon seems to also be the owner or manager. Not that I know that for sure, but that’s how it appears to me, or sometimes maybe it’s just his English is better and he’s being helpful, but I don’t think that’s it.

I wouldn’t turn around and walk out if it was an all male shop. It seems to me that’s similar to all female businesses in industries that have been dominated by men. I think part of what would make me comfortable or uncomfortable is how they seem about their job, if they like it. I feel that way about women too.

I don’t enjoy manicures and pedicures like many people do. I usually get a mani-minipedi. I have ticklish feet, I don’t want all my calluses removed, I worked hard for them, and don’t feel like going through the pain of developing new ones. If your feet hurt, and you are getting pedicures that leave your feet soft, maybe that’s why you’re feet hurt. I always worry about cleanliness and infection. It never seems to me the sponges or pads they use to smooth feet are sterilized or cleaned in any way.

I don’t let them cut my cuticles, except for bits that are truly ragged. Some ESL manicurists interpret that as don’t cut anything, and so they may leave my toe nails too long, or using a file for everything, which I don’t want on my feet especially. I usually get a French when I go, and so there is watching to see if they do the white thick enough. Plus, I like slightly rounded nails, and they seem to gravitate towards square or more pointy, so I either file at least one before, but I have to explain.

See what I mean, usually not very relaxing. If I went regularly I guess then I wouldn’t have to deal with a lot of that.

ucme's avatar

No need anyway…we have staff for that!

Qav's avatar

When I used to wear fake nails, only one time did a man do them. I thought nothing of that, but when he started working on me, he was brutal. And mouthy. A brat. I don’t wear the fake nails anymore (I quit soon after this experience), but I have been back a few times for regular manicures, but not with a man.

What would I want a man to do, if I ever let one do my manicure for me again? Just treat me like I am a person, not nails on sticks without feelings!

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