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Are there any women players? (NSFW)

Asked by RedDeerGuy1 (19628points) December 1st, 2019

Who lie to get sex? Or is that just men? If a woman tells you that she loves you does that mean that she really does love you? When compared to a guy, who just wants sex? Serious and humorous answers welcome.

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LadyMarissa's avatar

Best I can tell you is that very few women have to lie to a guy in order to get laid!!! She may lie to you for another reason, but sex usually ain’t it.

Darth_Algar's avatar

Contrary to what this site, and popular culture, may lead you to believe, neither men nor women are some kind of collective who all think and act the same. There is no “men/women do this/don’t do this”. Interests, desires, motivations and behavior are as varied as the colors in nature.

LadyMarissa's avatar

@Darth_Algar How many men have lied to you to get into your pants???

Dutchess_lll's avatar

I never had any desire to get into a stranger guy’s pants. If I did I certainly wouldn’t have had to lie to get there.

KNOWITALL's avatar

Sure there are, plenty.

ucme's avatar

There are certainly women who will shag you because they’re desperate for a partner/child.
These must be avoided at all costs, put your penis on strike if need be.

seawulf575's avatar

Of course women play games. It’s one of the things that makes us human. Billy Joel explained it very well with The Stranger.

JLeslie's avatar

Plenty of women lie to “hook” a man, but I don’t think women lie to have sex very often unless that’s part of the strategy to hook the guy.

I think most men and women are honest though. I’ve never played dating games. Sounds exhausting.

MrGrimm888's avatar

Hell yes, there are. One cost me a lucrative job. As with many women, I should have known better…

Patty_Melt's avatar

I haven’t lied for sex, but I have lied and kept a secret to enhance the sex within a relationship. It involved a chain of events which led to a fantasy realized.

Women have other tools in our arsenals which are plenty effective if we want sex. Body language, prolonged eye contact, invasion of personal space are frequently used to entice a potential sexual partner.
Actually, as I think about it, married women wanting to hook up would lie in many circumstances.

Love_my_doggie's avatar

Does a woman have to lie to get sex? I thought she needs little more than a pulse.

MrGrimm888's avatar

^It depends on the guy. Myself, I trust nobody, and at this stage in my life, I don’t just give it up to even a super attractive girl, until I have some information.
I can’t wear condoms. That has a lot to do with it…

kritiper's avatar

I’m sure there are in this world where it takes (and there are) all kinds.

Dutchess_lll's avatar

In am fairly sure that women players play men to get into a relationship to financially benefit, not for something as ludicrous as sex. I imagine it takes a long time of manipulation, which includes trying to give him the best sex ever.
I never played a man for that reason. Ick.

MrGrimm888's avatar

Yes. It’s in a woman’s toolbox. And can benefit them, in many ways.

Dutchess_lll's avatar

Well, financial security is the main benefit.

MrGrimm888's avatar

However you want to account for it, it’s just as deplorable, as what men do…

Dutchess_lll's avatar

Sure. But it’s not the same “flash in the pan” that men are after when they spend 10 minutes lying, just to get in her pants.
Women have to carry on the charade for years.

MrGrimm888's avatar

Whatever helps you sleep at night.

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