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Would you postpone getting pregnant now because of Covid?

Asked by chinchin31 (1874points) December 27th, 2020

We felt like this year was the right time to have another kid then Covid hit and will not go away. It is creating alot of anxiety for me, however I feel because of my age that time is running out. I just do not know anymore. Maybe it is not such a wise thing to do with all the uncertainty in the world right now. Also I think what if I end up having a complication and need to go to the hospital for treatment and there are not enough doctors? It might be a mess. What is your thought process on this ? Do you know anyone in my situation?

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janbb's avatar

I have a number of friends who had grandchildren born this year. I think most of the young mothers were pregnant before the pandemic started. They were successful but it certainly adds to the stress. even things like who can come to the hospital with you are an issue. I just heard of another friend’s daughter who is 41, seven months pregnant and has Covid. I don’t usually give strong advice but if I were you, I would wait six months and then start. I think we’ll be in a better place then.

_____'s avatar

My half-sister had twins recently, and there were complications. The babies had to spend a couple of weeks in the hospital. I would definitely want to wait.

Even if you plan on having your babies at home (my sons were born at home) or a birthing center, things can happen and you may end up giving birth in a hospital setting, which is not ideal under the current conditions.

JLoon's avatar

I’ve postponed getting pregnant – but not because of the pandemic ;)

kritiper's avatar

I would postpone getting pregnant because of overpopulation of the planet.

JLeslie's avatar

If you feel time is running out I’d go for it.

doyendroll's avatar

Yes, although I’m blessed with several other factors which will assist the infecundity.

jca2's avatar

If you start now, by the time you actually conceive and give birth it will probably be the end of 2021, when we should be ok as far as hospitalizations of people with the virus and hospital issues. I’d go for it.

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