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Jude's avatar

How do you get over someone you love?

Asked by Jude (32198points) December 29th, 2008
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bythebay's avatar

Just about the same way that you did 6 days ago.
http://www.fluther.com/disc/30493/how-do-you-get-closure-and-move-on-when-dealing-with/

Has something changed; or is there some light you could shed that might help us to understand more what you’re going through? The suggestions you got yesterday about taking some time for yourself would probably also help you.

m_dub's avatar

Sleep with their best friend. ha!

Although, in the past, I found focusing on self-improvements and other interests helps, like taking fun classes (good way to meet new people too)... also throwing yourself into work helps.

Just remember that time heals all wounds, and that this too shall pass.

cage's avatar

Time, and someone else… eventually.

scamp's avatar

Have them lay on the floor. Run towards them and jump. When you get to the other side, you are over them!!

I know that’s not the answer you want, but I bet it made you smile for just a minute, right?

qualitycontrol's avatar

kill them to 80’s rap music.

Mizuki's avatar

It takes the same amount of time to recover from a relationship, as the relationship lasted.

cd7301's avatar

You don’t unless you stop loving them. You must learn to love someone so much, that you want the best for them; even if that means letting them leave.

LKidKyle1985's avatar

it takes awhile, I just tried to go out with friends a lot and get out and have fun. This resulted in a lot of drinking. But hey good times.

Cardinal's avatar

Maybe never. I’m wprking on 30 some years for one relationship that went South.

jazzjeppe's avatar

The best way of getting over someone is not to get under anyone…I know it sounds weird and naive, but that’s a bitter lesson I have learnt. And that created me – a bitter pathetic single who never falls in love…:(

dirtydevil521's avatar

trying to get over someone you love is like trying to remember someone your never met…IMPOSSIBLE….

shortysith's avatar

Time. Plain and simple. You may never not “love” them, but you can realize there are other things in life too…and that you can and will love someone else again. Tough stuff, we’ve all been there..best of luck :)

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