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Sex Positions?

Asked by miss_meg (26points) February 20th, 2009

Best sex position and why

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eponymoushipster's avatar

missionary, because who knows more about sex than a celibate monk?

babiturtle36's avatar

From behind while laying over the side of the bed. Um, because it feels GREAT. That’s all I’m saying.

augustlan's avatar

My position is “Sex is good”.

Aethelwine's avatar

Doggy. ‘nuff said.

augustlan's avatar

@uberbatman That is a good one… but a warning might be needed there!

Blondesjon's avatar

@eponymoushipsterCelebate monks my ass! Missionaries have been fucking the indigenous populations of third world countries for years.

and in a place where it works out alot beter if you’re bent over.

cookieman's avatar

@uberbatman My personal favorite.

KingMalefic's avatar

I’ll let you know when I tried every conceivable one. :-)

Love doggy or reverse cowgirl, love the dimples right above the spine

Johnny_Rambo's avatar

From the rear, great view and a chance to dig in deep.

KrystaElyse's avatar

Any position with me on top….and this one.

Mamradpivo's avatar

The Blossom of the Lotus, also known as the crabwalk. It feels amazing for both partners and is fun to experiment with.

tb1570's avatar

Totally depends what you’re seeking. Cowgirl is great b/c it allows me to see & touch all her parts. It also allows her to control the pace and clitoral stimulation is easy in this position, so I find that this is usually the easiest position for a woman to cum in. And it easily moves into many other variations/positions, which is nice. (hovering butterfly is a personal fave).
Any variation of bent over/doggie-style is good for an ol’ fashioned pounding, but is lacking in intimacy and is not too conducive to “making love,” in my opinion. And when I’m making love, I really don’t like to “pull out”—I like to stay in the whole time, which you obviously cannot easily do when moving to/from doggie style. (I have, however, developed the ability/move that allows me to stay in when transitioning to/from missionary/cowgirl, and, if you go slow, you can keep it in when transitioning from cowgirl to doggie-style, so theoretically you can move seemlessly from missionary to doggie, it just takes a little time & effort. You can also move from missionary to doggie by having her put one leg in the air and slowly swing it over your head, slowly moving onto all fours, but this takes time and coordinated movement by both parties).
There is definitely something to be said for the missionary position. In my opinion it is easily the most intimate and allows for easy kissing, which I enjoy (girl on top, laying down on me is also good for this). It also easily moves into other positions, some of which are perennial favorites of mine (ie, holding her legs in the air by her ankles, her legs over my shoulders, her knees next to her ears, etc, etc.) I also really enjoy wrapping my arms completely around her and holding her tight, her wrapping her legs around my waist tightly and slowly grinding away. Quite wonderful, in my book.
Spooning/from behind while lying on our sides is also nice. Her sitting on the kitchen counter while I stand in front of her is also nice. Standing, against the wall or in the shower is also nice. I’m also able to simply hold her in the air while I’m in a slight squat position, which is also rather pleasant. And if we include 69 as a “sexual position,” then it is also one of my faves (so much going on at once—almost a sensory overload!!)
Man, they’re all wonderful!!!

Johnny_Rambo's avatar

Now thats a plethora of sexual positions tb1570. I hope you keep them safley under lock and key.

Aethelwine's avatar

69

Everyone is happy, that’s why.

AstroChuck's avatar

Just like everybody else, I’d have to say that the Dirty Sanchez is the clear favorite.

Sueanne_Tremendous's avatar

I’ve had to think about this a bit. So let me answer this way, when I was screwing guys I loved standing up and bending over a chair or laying my torso on the bed and getting it from behind. Usually wearing heels. I think that it was my legs being locked and taut that helped produce some very nice tight screwing feelings. That and my hand or his being able to manipulate my ummmm naughty bits.

Now that I choose to only have sex with women I would have to say my fave position is similar but different. I like being on my knees rather wide apart and my head on my pillow. This allows for some excellent oral/manual/vibrational stimulation.

TMI? Suffah

augustlan's avatar

Sueanne, you are killing me.

Sueanne_Tremendous's avatar

I take that as a compliment Auggie

madcapper's avatar

@AstroChuck I think we can all agree on a lil dirty san!

fireside's avatar

@richardhenry – you got that right

Blondesjon's avatar

Is this with or without a partner? I know a solo position called the naughty sock puppet that has it’s merits.

For couples, prisoner and the warden’s wife can be mutually gratifying.

Strauss's avatar

Be adventurous!

gailcalled's avatar

Anything that doesn’t give you a herniated disk, a torn rotator cuff, a stiff neck, an anal fistula or an abraided tongue.

cookieman's avatar

@gailcalled I believe that one is called voyeurism.

Blondesjon's avatar

@gailcalled…As soon as I can catch my breath and quit laughing at anal fistula I am going to ask you if you kiss Milo with that mouth…hang on…I need another minute…

gailcalled's avatar

@cprevite: Which one is called “voyeurism”?
@Blondesjon; Happy to provide amusement. Milo doesn’t find me particularly funny…his loss.

Blondesjon's avatar

@gailcalled…Cats are notoriously humorless.

babiturtle36's avatar

Nice site uber! :)

cookieman's avatar

@gailcalled Meaning to avoid those injuries you’d be better off watching the action.

gailcalled's avatar

@cprevite: Was it Groucho Marx who said that if he wanted to see a naked man, he would simply take off his clothes, look in a mirror and save the fee? If it wasn’t, it should have been.

AstroChuck's avatar

@gailcalled- I don’t know if Groucho said that or not, but he did say, “If you want to see a comic strip, you shoud see me in the shower.”

eponymoushipster's avatar

Cleveland steamer.

folded deck chair for the win

cookieman's avatar

@gailcalled and @AstroChuck: Now all I can picture is Groucho Marx in various sexual positions.

Blondesjon's avatar

@eponymoushipster…The Cleveland Steamer is really more of an act than a position isn’t it?

eponymoushipster's avatar

@Blondesjon well, i suppose, but you need to position yourself for it.

Strauss's avatar

My position on sex is YES!

Violet's avatar

deck chair, butterfly, deep stick, drill, mirror of pleasure, victory, and most doggy styles
(names came from sexinfo101.com)

augustlan's avatar

@Violet I see you’re making your way through the list! :D

Violet's avatar

@augustlan Well, I didn’t start all the way from the end, and I’m just picking the questions with less comments/answers

JessicaRabbit's avatar

From behind because I “lurve” it ;) HAHA

antimatter's avatar

Doggy style! Loves the wife’s ass.

danzmarvs's avatar

@antimatter Well that’s the nicest as they say but why not just the normal ones

AstroChuck's avatar

My position on sex: I’m for it!

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OpenandFree's avatar

I enjoy the missionary position. I like to feel the weight of the guy on top of me, makes me feel somewhat submissive. I also like reverse cowgirl.

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Spicy's avatar

Cowgirl when I want control. Doggies when I want it hard. I really need emoticons

Strauss's avatar

At the risk of repeating myself…

Yes!!!

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