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Do guys hate it when a girl gags while performing oral sex?

Asked by punkrockworld (960points) February 23rd, 2009

I always wonder what’s so amazing about it.. I don’t get it and I probably never will

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TitsMcGhee's avatar

I would assume they would, because that might be an indication that they’re about to be vomited on, and I don’t know anyone who is longing for that to happen to them.

I’d assume the only pleasure would come from the idea that his penis is so big that it hits her gag reflex… but still. I can’t see that ending well.

kevbo's avatar

If it’s done with enthusiasm, then there’s no problem. It’s hot to have a girl take it as far as she can (or a little further).

Allie's avatar

I don’t think they’d mind. Either way, they’ve got it pretty good in that situation.

Ha! Enthusiasm.. “Yay! I gagged!” <- Like that? ;)

AstroChuck's avatar

Not sure if I’m that equipped.

Vinifera7's avatar

It’s entertaining, but there’s nothing particularly attractive about it.

augustlan's avatar

Just gag quietly.

Bri_L's avatar

I don’t care for it. I wouldn’t want to think I was gagging her or she was uncomfortable in an attempt at doing something.

But if it were a repeated thing and such that is up to her.

Maybe it is just a sound produced in the effort.

Jack79's avatar

I guess it depends on the situation

tennesseejac's avatar

That is ridiculous, I would hope it would be the opposite for me. I dont want to hear a girl gag especially while she is going down on me. I just like her to focus on the tip anyway so no need to jam the whole thing down her throat.

exitnirvana's avatar

@augustlan, hahahahahahaahaha.

eponymoushipster's avatar

I like it if one of them gags.

jbfletcherfan's avatar

You can get the job done without ramming it down your throat. You just have to, um…well…oh, hell..you know.

wundayatta's avatar

Personally, I think it’s a power thing. This girl is willing to do anything, either because you force her to, or because she wants you so desperately that she tries to swallow you.

Of course, because I think that, I really, really don’t like it. It doesn’t seem loving at all, to me. It would take an awful lot for me to believe a girl really wanted to do that.

Notice I say girl, not woman. I think a man could only do that to someone he didn’t respect, or thought of as a sex machine, like a hooker. They tend to be younger, as well as employees.

But yuck! The more I think of it, the more disgusted I get.

Mr_M's avatar

I much rather they gag then they pass gas. Especially in the 69 position.

wundayatta's avatar

Come on @Mr_M! You’re smoking, so why shouldn’t they pass gas? It’s only fair.

Mr_M's avatar

Can’t smoke in the 69 position. Tried it once. Put new meaning to the word “hot”. Since she looked like Smokey the Bear, first thing I thought of was a forest fire.

wundayatta's avatar

@Mr_M: Say it ain’t so… M. I have never seen you without a smoke, and I just assumed you were permanently attached to that butt.

Mr_M's avatar

Talk about being permanently attached to a BUTT….. Have you SEEN your avatar lately??

wundayatta's avatar

Ah well, we all have our butts to bear!

jbfletcherfan's avatar

@Mr_M Sounds like she needed to trim some limbs back!!!

elijah's avatar

@daloon I can understand your disgust at the though of gagging someone, but in my opinion gagging is usually on accident. If someone tried to do it to me on purpose, they would be very sorry.
I think sometimes you can go at it like wild animals even though you love the person. Just because I love someone doesn’t mean I always want to make love, staring into their eyes, slow and nice.
Sometimes I just want to f*ck LOL. That means sweating, hair pulling, angry passionate sex. If part of that involves a little accidental gag (by my own overzealousness) then so be it! I know he loves me, and I love him, but were just gettin’ diiiirty!

wundayatta's avatar

@elijahsuicide Accidental gagging when you are voluntarily getting into it—that’s one thing. I’m sure you soon pull away.

Being held down by the guy who is forcing you to deep throat? Another thing entirely.

Mr_M's avatar

@elijahsuicide , now I SO need a cold shower!!!

elijah's avatar

The question didn’t specify if it was accidental or imposed gagging, so I just thought I would cover all the bases ;-)
I think we are on the same page then.

Bri_L's avatar

What daloon said. That is where I was trying to go.

El_Cadejo's avatar

As long as there arent teeth coming after the gag, whatevers clever. The key is to learn to suppress that gag reflex though ;)

@tennesseejac just the tip? What boring blowjobs you must get….. :P

tennesseejac's avatar

@uberbatman I like when she uses her hand at the base (and the other of course on the old balls), so no need for her to choke on my dick. And I have only had a couple of boring blowjobs but that was just because I was too fucked up to get it up

Sakata's avatar

If she’s gagging I’m probably gonna get off a lot quicker. I don’t know why but it’s definitely a turn-on and easily my favorite part if/when it happens.

ronski's avatar

I personally don’t even mind gagging myself. It’s a little uncomfortable, but I think it shows I’m enthusiastic. haha.

eponymoushipster's avatar

@ronski yah – some some team spirit!

casheroo's avatar

It’s usually a bad sign if I start gagging. Thankfully my husband doesn’t care if I perform oral sex on him or not.

Sakata's avatar

@casheroo I used to not care if my wife did it or not either. Then we talked about it and I showed her how to do it correctly. Now it’s a regular part of our sexual routine, and it’s great.

I’m just sayin’

casheroo's avatar

@Sakata Lol. I know how to do it. I don’t like to. He is fine with me not wanting to do it.

Sakata's avatar

@casheroo She didn’t like doing it either until I started liking it. Now it’s a turn-on for her.

tnatwo14's avatar

I love to hear a girl gag during deepthroat! It’s very arousing and exciting, and I’m not exactly sure why. Just the sound of it can get me going!

Especially during rough deepthroat, holding her head and making her take it fast and deep. The gagging causes a lot of spit that drools out too, which is also drives me crazy. I love it.

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