What constitues a "freak" when it comes to sex?
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she wants to do it all the time whenever and wherever.
When urine or feces are involved.
@Facade Yeah when that becomes part of the sex act, therapy is the way to go, not sex.
The person who lists off every act they want without asking what you’re into, at all. That’s the person who deserves to be humored to their every expectation and then shared nothing.
She’s a very kinky girl, the kind you don’t take home to mother.
I believe it is subjective-I think screwing stuffed animals is freaky, but others think it’s totally ok.
It’s different for everyone and depends on personal taste.
Penguins.
When it involves penguins, you are a freak.
If she wants to gag you with a slip she wore for 7 days you know you’re in trouble…
and penguins of course…
@Facade
Sorry, when I buy those on the interwebz I always…..ouw….sigh…
banging another flutherer, while yelling “Good Answer! Good Answer!”...that’s freaky.
@jonsblond so you yell “Good Answer” when you make whoopie? nice.
i don’t even want to know what makes you yell “Good Question”...<shudder>
@eponymoushipster The question is: “Do I make you horny baby?”
Answer: “F”@k yeah you do!”
…when your partner or witness(es) judge it as such…
ok, what was wrong with my first comment? seriously – what was insincere or jokey about it?
I guess “freaky” is subjective. Does anyone really know what Rick James meant? haha.
Personally, anything that isn’t joked about on prime-time TV. There’s a definite difference between freaky and kinky.
I think when you add a unique element to the sexual experience it makes it freaky. Something though out that is not the first thing that would come to mind.
An unusual act is freaky the first time you experience it.
After that, I consider it “added to my repertoire”
A sexual frontiersman [-woman], much like Kool Keith.
kinky is using a feather; a freak uses the whole chicken. or dressing up the goat in a Little Bo Peep outfit.
Reminds me of the driving analogy
Anyone who drives slower than you is a moron and anyone who drives faster is an idiot
Depends on personal preference!
What you like other people might not and vice versa
Anyone who wants to do something with you that you do not want to do, and who won’t take no for an answer.
That, to me, is a freak in terms of sex.
I absolutely hate the use of the term “freak” when it comes to sex.
It should be outlawed.
I remember something about a feather duster….
Ok, I wasn’t going to get into this, but I woke up this morning, specifically feeling bothered about some of the responses to this question, so…
@charliecompany34: Why do you say “she”? Are you implying that, for women, it should be considered “abnormal” and “freakish” to have a strong libido, but not for men?
@jonsblond: Are you serious? A kinky girl, the kind you don’t take home to mother? Last I checked, most moms don’t want to know the details of their grown children’s sex lives. Why should a sexual woman who expresses herself and is comfortable with her high sex drive and, perhaps, unique sexual preferences be treated as if she isn’t “girlfriend material”? It’s 2009 – shouldn’t people get over this idea that women are “supposed to be” shy, overly modest, missionary-only bores?! What the hell. I know it still exists, but this concept that some males have of wanting their wives/girlfriends to be reserved (and thinking that women who are more free with their sexualities are not “good enough” for mother) is really outdated and disturbing. This notion that, to be a respectable woman, one must be reserved with her sexuality, is absolutely insulting. There is no reason that a woman’s hypersexuality should deem her unworthy of a relationship.
I guess the biggest issue I had with your answer, jonsblond, is that it implied the male would enjoy this “kinky” girl as a fling, but that she would be unworthy of meeting his mother because of her sexuality.
@girlofscience
seeing as we all seem to be in our 30s, maybe not wanting to discuss open sexuality with an over 60 mom isn’t that sexist at all but just, well, tact?
Nothing sexist about that, really.
Just because you want to wear it on the sleeve doesn’t mean everybody not comfortable with open display is against it or even oppressive sexist.
A lady in the streets and a freak in the sheets is not a mark of oppression, it is extremely classy!
@TaoSan: Wow, you completely misunderstood what I was saying. I was not speaking about openly advertising one’s sexuality at ALL. See, my statement, “Last I checked, most moms don’t want to know the details of their grown children’s sex lives.”
What did you misunderstand? I was saying that a so-called “freak” should not be deemed unworthy of a relationship or meeting parents BECAUSE her “freak”-ness would not be relevant around the parents… @jonsblond was implying that “kinky” ladies are not the kind of women men should want to become serious with. None of this was about openly displaying one’s sexuality around anyone other than one’s partner… I never said that was appropriate.
@girlofscience: As @jonsblond was quoting a very tongue-in-cheek Rick James song, I don’t think she was being serious (particularly in light of her subsequent comments).
That being said, you bring up a good point. It would be nice if views of “wife material” were more progressive, but you’re underestimating inertia.
Most women I know are only one or two generations removed from a perspective that prefers women demure and lacking in opinion or substance.
@girlofscience It’s ok. We all have something that we feel strongly about, don’t we. :)
now I have that damn song stuck in my head
she’s a super freak, super freak – she’s super freakaayy (owww)
speaking of freaky…if you two would like to kiss and make up…
If I kissed all the girls that I made up with, I might be considered a freak. ;)
To clarify:
<——-Freak yet not as Compassionate Heretic defines.
@girlofscience
Oops, yeah, now I see it. Totally read that wrong!!!!
I stand corrected…
“Cocaine’s a hell of a drug.”—Rick James
lol this thread got entirely screwed up thanks to me.
sorry for being such a moron. :(
Hey, it made it fun. I wasn’t sure if you were kidding at first.
I was going to apologize for turning this into a Rick James thread.
It made for an interesting day, didn’t it. :P
It did at that. I also spent some time watching Chappelle because of it, and that’s always a good thing. :^>
@girlofscience Even the smartest people don’t know everything. We forgive you for your pop culture shortcomings. ;) <3
Freaky is in the eye of the beholder and their partner
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