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celticpride's avatar

I want to sleep with my best friend's sister. What should I do?

Asked by celticpride (12points) February 28th, 2008 from iPhone

Need advice

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GD_Kimble's avatar

well, here’s thing…
If you are actually into her and want to pursue something real with her, you should have a man to man talk with your friend about it.
However, if you are just wanting to sleep with her, don’t do it. There is NO way that will work out well for anyone. It’s a Greek tragedy waiting to happen.

celticpride's avatar

Thanks for the advice. I would like to pursue it for a relationship but its tough cuz I’ve known her for 10yrs

cwilbur's avatar

Then you already have a relationship,and you should feel comfortable enough with her to see if she wants to go on a date.

On the other hand, if all you want from her is sex, I’d say drop it now. It won’t end well.

Yogi's avatar

look bro I agree with the two answer u got so far but u should talk to her right, she may feel the same way maybe u guys might just wanna sleep with each other or maybe it’s meant to be a relationship but once u talk to her and she wants a relationship then that the apropiate time to talk to your friend. One more thing u better hurry up before it to late

celticpride's avatar

thanks yogi and cwilbur. I want to but then if I come off as being too aggresive or too forthright it might make her feel uncomfortable. We’ve been to strip clubs and basketball games together. How should I approach her.

gym313's avatar

do it bro don’t you want to be cool?

Yogi's avatar

10 years that already alot just approach her like any other day sit her down and let it out tell her your feelings and ask her if u guys can build something from where yall at to extreme you know what to do follow you heart

celticpride's avatar

Ok, I’ll talk to her soon. Thanks again, I appreciate it.

cwilbur's avatar

“You know, we’ve known each other for a while. You want to maybe go to dinner and a movie together, maybe a date?” If she says yes, go for it. If she says no, drop it.

Aggressive is only bad if you want to do something the other person doesn’t want to do and you don’t take no for an answer.

ishotthesheriff's avatar

don’t go straight into sex… that should be the last thing on your mind if you really want a good, truthful relationship.

neonez's avatar

Heres my advice: DON’T

iSteve's avatar

Talk to your friend about it first. That will show that you value the friendship.

DJM's avatar

Do it, whats the problem? I have, I dont see the issue…. unless you are deviously planning to dump her immediately, in which case, at your own risk

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