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how do you break up with someone that says they're in love with you?

Asked by qualitycontrol (2570points) March 3rd, 2008 from iPhone

been dating for a few weeks but don’t want to commit my life what should I do?

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sincitycreative's avatar

Tell them that you think it’s way too soon to be talking about love. Relax, take your time. If they don’t want to do that, then let them go, since it appears they are too clingy, needy, and demanding.

PupnTaco's avatar

“I don’t love you and you deserve to be with someone who feels the same for you as you do for them.”

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jrpowell's avatar

Be honest with them and tell them how you feel. It is up to you to come up with the right words to use. And if you can’t think of the right words put one hand over your face and the other over your genitals and go with, “bitch u ugly.”

drewtyer's avatar

have sex one last time and then break it to him or her via AIM/text message the next day.

it’s the classy thing to do.

gorillapaws's avatar

You could always just stop brushing your teeth and showering; the problem will likely sort itself out naturally…

buster's avatar

i dont love you ho im out the do’

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annaott22's avatar

I’ve broken hearts. Just say I don’t want to be with you its easier to be cold about it that to try and be nice…

cwilbur's avatar

Be honest, be nice, be firm, but don’t back down. “It’s not working for me. I think we’ll be happier dating other people.”

(Someone who declares love after 3 weeks does not seem like a person that it’s safe to date in the first place.)

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