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I've fallen head over heals. what should i do?

Asked by MadiFC (73points) September 5th, 2010

“I have totally fallen head over heals for this guy! And he seems really special. the problem is that he has a girlfriend that he has been with for a while. Should I wait around or let it go?”
Above is what I wrote yesterday but I just found out that today they broke up…Should I wait a few months then tell him I like him?

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Whitsoxdude's avatar

Both of those scenarios essentially mean the same thing: Don’t do anything.

nebule's avatar

Accept the way you feel but I agree..don’t do anything other than focus on your own life and the other things that makes you happy and fulfilled. Don’t expect them to break up…people fight a lot and spend years together if not their whole lives. I hope you find someone who truly loves you and cares for you… Do you think that he has feelings for you at all by the way?

MadiFC's avatar

well iIm not really sure…like were friends but I haven’t told him that I like him and I haven’t asked him if he has feelings for me because I don’t feel right doing so. but the way he talks to me about her sounds like he’s loosing intrest.I dont want them to break up, all i want is for him to be happy but he doesn’t seam to be.
but to answer your question, my friend who is a mutual friend of the guy i like thinks that i’m in with a shot. he says he thinks this because of the way we act around eachother.

Hypocrisy_Central's avatar

Sweet holy moly! Snap out of it and move on. Do you even know if he will be interested in you if he left his present g/f? Do you really want a fella on the rebound? Maybe his hurt and anger over the pass g/f will spill over on you. Think of how days will be like dealing with that and then you may see it won’t be the Disney movie you imagined. As in dominoes all money ain’t good money. It maybe good for a while then it will bite you in the a**. While you are waiting for someone to fix the flat you could have taken the bus and gotten there. Don’t miss out on what you could have waiting for what you don’t have and can’t get. Snap out of it and move on.

loser's avatar

You probably don’t want to go there right now…

marinelife's avatar

Do not do anything unless he has broken up with his girlfriend.

If he has broken up, you can tell him that you like him.

Seaofclouds's avatar

I’d move on for now. If down the road after he’s moved on from his relationship you want to give things a go, have at it. Right now, he’s most likely not in a place to jump right into another relationship, so if that is what you are hoping for, it may not happen.

Trillian's avatar

Heels. Sorry.

CMaz's avatar

Get back on your feet.

MadiFC's avatar

Thanks so much all you guys….you’ve all helped me so much!!! thankyou

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