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How did you win your girl's heart?

Asked by qualitycontrol (2573points) March 29th, 2008

What did you do to get her to give u a chance?

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iSteve's avatar

I did everything I could to be the best possible friend she could ever have. It worked!!!

Brew805's avatar

kiss her like you mean it

scamp's avatar

My SO got me by being caring, intelligent, and oh so funny. He’s a great guy, and very compassionate. He listens to me, and that’s very important in a relationship. We have very good communication skills. Show interest in what she likes to do, and be willing to compromise. Let her know you are fun to be around, but also that you know how to deal with the serious things in life as well.

srmorgan's avatar

with difficulty.

Cardinal's avatar

As I posted before. I tried , I failed. Think of her often. Alas it has been 30 some years.

Riser's avatar

I was myself, for the first time in my life, that worked.

iceblu's avatar

i agree with riser, be yourself, don’t be something fake and what your not, and make her smile, thats what do =]

gailcalled's avatar

And don’t forget to put the seat down and take out the garbage from time to time; hide little love notes in unexpected places, write sweet nothings on bathroom mirror w. soap. Rub her feet, rub her back, massage her scalp.

Be willing to say, “I’m sorry, “I make a mistake,” “good point,” when it is appropriate.

eklamor's avatar

I let her be herself. I was the person who could finally know everything about her. Listen to her and be her best friend as well as a lover.

sndfreQ's avatar

@gail: ...and don’t forget to end each statement / response with “yes, dear.”

rking1487's avatar

Be yourself

DinoMite17's avatar

I respected her and gave her all my love

gailcalled's avatar

@snd: just so she reciprocates :-) (Snow here this AM).

aaronblohowiak's avatar

1. Eliminate your desires.
2. Do something excellent in her presence, thereby proving your sexual worthiness.
3. Retreat, for as Heidegger said, “We pursue that which retreats from us”.

ninjaxmarc's avatar

I was myself and she couldn’t help herself by kissing me, it really caught me off guard. My down to earth nature and great listening skills just made her fall and we have been inseparable since.

Poser's avatar

I don’t know. I still can’t figure out why she’s with me. But I’m not complaining.

crackerjack's avatar

I was myself, I always listened to her no matter what it was about.
I tried to help her out in every situation and treated her like the queen she is to me.
Also, it never hurts to make her laugh while still being able to make her melt by telling her how you feel as long as you are truthful and not lying just to get her.

needleinthehay's avatar

a little song and dance

danzig's avatar

It took lots and lots of money.

chaosrob's avatar

Several years of just being her friend, followed by one amazing kiss.

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