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[NSFW] What's the ideal size (see details)?

Asked by ETpro (34202 points ) January 18th, 2013

This TGIF question is only meant for those who might be able to fancy cock sucking. If you’re already a confirmed devotee, move on to the next paragraph. If you are on the fence, never tried it, but might someday, here’s a scenario for you. Let’s say your partner has, again and again given you great head to the point where you had a truly mind blowing orgasm. They’ve never pushed you to return the favor.

Picking up where other size questions left off (see list below), let’s look at where size really matters. What is your ideal on how thick, how long, and how hard the ideal male member to suck should be.

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•     Why does penis size differ so much?
•     How do you girls feel about your butt size?
•     Does size matter or does trying and being a good guy count?
•     Ladies, does the size or shape of the nut matter?
•     Women do you really honestly believe size doesn’t matter?

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ragingloli's avatar

Like the Kazakhstanian Tinshein swimming pool. Length 30m and width 6m, with a filtration system that is a marvel to behold because it removes 80% of human solid waste.

livelaughlove21's avatar

I fancy cock sucking quite a bit. My ideal size is around 6.5–7 inches. Big enough that it looks good but not so big that you can’t do anything with it. I also like an average girth, as my mouth isn’t very big and a sore jaw isn’t exactly a turn-on. I also prefer circumcised, just because I find it more aesthetically pleasing. As for hardness, as hard as he can get it. :)

That question about “the nut” cracks me up. I don’t think I have much of a preference there, as long as they’re clean and preferably hairless (the only part that should be hairless). They look better lying down in your standard oral sex position than standing up anyways.

As long as he’s neatly groomed, not smelly, and pretty responsive, I’m good to go.

Shippy's avatar

I don’t care much about size, I love oral, and also prefer circumcised but its not a train smash if it is not. Hairy nuts is a definite switch off. You want me to suck your balls? You gotta remove the fur. Size of nuts no worry any do, I’d certainly expect to give oral, if I got it, I prefer giving blows it’s more exciting for me than receiving.

bookish1's avatar

Big enough that it makes my throat sore for a few days. There, I said it.

DominicX's avatar

I know it’s cliched and people get sick of hearing, but I really don’t care about size that much. I’ve received and given oral sex—I mean, yeah, too big would be uncomfortable; that was my initial concern about giving oral to another guy and my mouth is kind of small, so…maybe average to below average (which is what I’ve been with). I’d try to avoid what @bookish1 describes ;)

Blondesjon's avatar

Baby Bear size.

baby bear’s is always just right

nicole29's avatar

I prefer more on the above average size, although I’ve not dealt much with anything less than average. Not because I want it to gag me, but more so I can get a hand (or maybe two) involved also. It usually ends up being a pretty drawn out process, so being able to mix in multiple elements is nice. Of course I want him to be hard… but I’ve also found that some guys can be very turned on and not rock hard. Actually makes it easier to give a BJ and more creative freedom to try different things with pressure and sensitive areas.

As far as the size of the rest – honestly never given much notice. Some guys are way sensitive, so I avoided all together for a while. Just recently re-entering that realm. No hair though, please. Yuck.

ETpro's avatar

@ragingloli Where’s the other 20% go? :-0

@livelaughlove21 Nobody has ever tea-bagged me, and I never felt cheated. That must be more of a mind-game thing than a real sexual technique. But it you’re going to do it, I completely understand why you’d want them hair free. And yeah, I thought “the nut” question was da bomb.

@Shippy You and I both prefer oral. I’d rather lick than stick. Funny, because we’re so alike, we’d make a terrible match.

@bookish1 Yeah, been there and done that, and I get it. Everything gets so slippery.

@DominicX I have a smallish mouth too. The sore jaw syndrome is truly no fun.

@Blondesjon :-)

@nicole29 What really led me to ask is that I have entered that class of “guys can be very turned on and not rock hard” and I wondered if that was a turnoff. Having been on the giving end, it seemed to me like it would open the door to techniques that wouldn’t work on a glass-hard rod. Thanks for confirming.

livelaughlove21's avatar

@ETpro I believe tea bagging is dipping your own testicles into the mouth of another. So, never being tea bagged is a good thing for you. Ball sucking, on the other hand, is just part of a good blowjob. :)

ETpro's avatar

@livelaughlove21 Aha! According to the Urban Dictionary you are right. Sorry, I didn’t know it was a verb, transitive only.

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