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I'm a little curious, what the heck is up with the collective?

Asked by Adirondackwannabe (36713points) May 13th, 2010

What is going on lately? I’ve never seen such rude, uncivil behavior or so many personal attacks. We live in a great big wide world, and there are a lot of different people out there. Just because some of them are different doesn’t entitle anyone to be so mean and vicious. Embrace diversity and quit being so small and petty.

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BoBo1946's avatar

got-cha…don’t have a clue what is the problem! Took up for Sopief or Didley the other night and you would have thought i committed murder or something!

could it the moon effect! loll

Jeremycw1's avatar

Well put indeed

Cruiser's avatar

I don’t see it as an issue really…maybe some blowing off a little steam but if anything I see more people just asking for it. Much to do about nothing IMO!

jonsblond's avatar

@BoBo1946 Miss Sophie isn’t Miss Innocent. just sayin’. Still no excuse for the hostility. That is why I spend very little time here anymore.

BoBo1946's avatar

@jonsblond got’cha (certainly understand your comment)....not a problem…we young folks have been loved before..loll

Adirondackwannabe's avatar

@Cruiser You’re the exception to this statement. I’ve never witnessed this kind of crap from you.
There are others that act like a pack of rabid dogs. The attacks on Sophief blew my mind. She’s really one of the kindest gentlest souls if you get to know her. I’ll probably take all kinds of shit for that, but I stand by her.

BoBo1946's avatar

@Adirondackwannabe yeah, agreed…she has some issues and everyone knows that…but, hey, i’ve issues also…everyone does! And, you are right..she is a gentle soul! Of course, we have known her longer than the guys and girls on Fluther. Back to the AB days!

Cruiser's avatar

@Adirondackwannabe I missed that one and may share in your dismay had I seen what everyone seems to be talking about. It is thankfully rare to see things get way out of whack here! AB on the other hand used to be a cage match ½ the time! Made for some very spirited discourse!!

BoBo1946's avatar

@Cruiser will try to find it..and give you a link!

Adirondackwannabe's avatar

I enjoy spirited discourse. I used to have some great go arounds with JustJustine. We just never went into personal attacks. The bitchiness on here sometimes is unbelievable.

BoBo1946's avatar

forgot..they deleted it!

rangerr's avatar

Fluther seems to go through fits of aggression.
I’m not totally sure why apart from people getting tired of problematic/ attention needing users.

Give it a week.

BoBo1946's avatar

Sophief deleted her profile…she is gone from Fluther! biting my tongue! geezzzzzzzzzz

jonsblond's avatar

@BoBo1946 she’s back under a different name

BoBo1946's avatar

@jonsblond oh…did Fluther kick her off? Or did she leave..

lucillelucillelucille's avatar

I suggest a food fight…<<throws a meatloaf>>;)

Adirondackwannabe's avatar

@lucillelucillelucille Assault with a deadly weapon.

BoBo1946's avatar

@Adirondackwannabe loll..have seen some meatloaf that would be deadly!

jonsblond's avatar

@lucillelucillelucille Is that all you’ve got?....<<tosses taco salad with a side of refried beans>>

chyna's avatar

Guys, really, stop this topic. I am on a liquid only diet today for tests tomorrow and I’m hungry!

lucillelucillelucille's avatar

@jonsblond-You are good!
Have a smoothie!You too,Chyna!!I am nothing if not fair:))

ucme's avatar

The agressive negative folk have & always will be here.Just they float to the surface like all pond life from time to time.Best ignored no vaue or interest in it at all.

Cruiser's avatar

@lucillelucillelucille <<launches a fruit cake at her>>

chels's avatar

It seems to me like it’s the same few people that have been in a bad mood lately.

Embrace diversity and quit being so small and petty.
Maybe they don’t think they’re being petty? Maybe they have a reason for why they’re acting this way? Threads like this don’t help either. Telling people to “quit being _____” is just adding fuel to the fire. Just ignore it.

Dr_Dredd's avatar

Resistance is futile. They have been assimilated.

DominicX's avatar

I think some of it has to do with the more relaxed guidelines in the social section. People can finally release pent-up frustration and anger that would have been moderated in the past.

Zen_Again's avatar

Where? Where? Link to thread, please.

jeanmay's avatar

@Zen_Again The Sophief thread got pulled and that was the right decision. You can read about it here.

jazmina88's avatar

Poor sophie…....I lurve her….whomever she may be now.

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