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(NSFW) What unconventional things do you find sexy?

Asked by anniereborn (15461points) October 15th, 2013

I don’t mean a fetish or even something kinky. Just something you find sexy that isn’t “mainstream”.
For instance…I love a woman in a formal dress with bare feet.

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ucme's avatar

Bacon, that’s one hawt pig!

ragingloli's avatar

Cats. Was turned on through the entirety of ‘Puss in Boots’.

gailcalled's avatar

MIlo here; Small bits of crinkled up newspaper.

Katniss's avatar

Overweight men. I love the big teddy bear types. :0)

Headhurts's avatar

Men in suits, men with authority.

LuckyGuy's avatar

Few things are as hot as a female Israeli soldier walking in uniform with her Uzi slid around on her back and the sling in the Playtex-cross-your-heart-bra position. They were all slightly tanned, in great shape, and stood up straight and tall.

Their posture was good, too. ;-)

Seek's avatar

Intelligence.

LuckyGuy's avatar

It was their intelligence I noticed first. ;-)

Adirondackwannabe's avatar

Gotta have intelligence, (a positive IQ is always a plus) plus confidence and a little attitude.

KNOWITALL's avatar

Kindness to others & humor, major sexy.

Adirondackwannabe's avatar

@KNOWITALL True, a good partner always takes care of their partner, and humor is nice but we’re not getting outside the box, which was what Annie was looking for.

graynett's avatar

I find that when my wife is ill that’s a real turn on. My sickness is her sickness. I have been wondering if I should go and get help. I hope that it is my concern for her that makes me behave like this. Is this very common?

Seek's avatar

It is not normal to find pleasure in disease, no.

LuckyGuy's avatar

I get all tingly when I go to that exotic restaurant, Waffle House, and the waitresses ask me with their hot, southern accents: “Wudjoo lahk moah coffee, Hun?”
Yes… Yesss!.... Oh Yessss!!!
And an extra napkin, please.

Seek's avatar

That waitress chick from the comic strip ‘Shoe’ must get you all sorts of hot and bothered, @LuckyGuy

filmfann's avatar

@Seek_Kolinahr I was thinking of the waitress in Non Sequitur

Seek's avatar

That’s the one I was thinking of. You got me. Mixing up my Sunday funnies characters.

Adirondackwannabe's avatar

Now we’re getting somewhere. I get turned on by 9 Chickweed Lane. And accents.

rojo's avatar

redheads.

LuckyGuy's avatar

@Seek_Kolinahr When I travel I like to try interesting ethnic foods: Mediterranean, Ethiopian, Indian, Japanese… Waffle House. I love the culture, and accents almost as much as the food.
At WH they bring enough butter to lubricate a ferris wheel. The waitresses are generally older and have the seasoned, gravelly voice that can only be obtained from years of working in a coal mine or smoking. When they call me “Hon” or “Sweetie” in that southern accent, my butter melts.

ucme's avatar

Jaffa cakes

SomeoneElse's avatar

@LuckyGuy Of course it was their intelligence you noticed first . . . .

dxs's avatar

@Seek_Kolinahr That’s a New England accent not a Southern accent!

LuckyGuy's avatar

@SomeoneElse Absolutely. I noticed their well proportioned frontal lobes from across the room.

SomeoneElse's avatar

@LuckyGuy Nice to know that you have 20/20 vision too!

oneSasyRN's avatar

A dominant man who is secure in who he is…protective, confident…oh and he has to smell good :)

Adirondackwannabe's avatar

@oneSasyRN You don’t go for that knock the buzzard off the shit wagon at 50 paces BO?

ItalianPrincess1217's avatar

Irish accents. And men in hoodies. I’m not sure what it is about a man in a nice warm sweatshirt but it makes me want to cuddle up next to him.

LuckyGuy's avatar

@Adirondackwannabe I can knock the buzzard off the shit wagon at 50 paces with my LCP?. Does that count?

Coloma's avatar

Yep, intelligence, wit and humor for me.
Looks are secondary to a sharp mind and wit.
No Jethros for me.

oneSasyRN's avatar

Knock the what off the who?

Adirondackwannabe's avatar

@oneSasyRN I think it was a George Carlin line describing a woman’s bad breath. She could knock a buzzard off a shit wagon at 50 paces. A shit wagon was a manure spreader farmers use.
@LuckyGuy That is a sexy Ruger. Nice!

ragingloli's avatar

what is a pace?

Adirondackwannabe's avatar

A stride, for me about one yard, or 91.44 centimeters.

ragingloli's avatar

oh, another of your stupid units of measurement.

Adirondackwannabe's avatar

Who had to ask what is was? Just kidding.

LuckyGuy's avatar

@Adirondackwannabe Exciting, nice curves, tight package, smooth surfaces, and just the right hand feel…. Do I detect a hint of tumescence?
My LCP has the laser sight, too.
Did that push you over the edge?

Pachy's avatar

Long peasant skirts make me craaaaaazy.

Coloma's avatar

^^^ Then I’m your girl. lol

AshLeigh's avatar

A beard on a man is like extra cheese on a pizza. It doesn’t hurt not to have it, but it’s always better with it.

muppetish's avatar

Androgeny.

Seek's avatar

@dsx I know! All the waitressy goodness, none of the awful southern accent.

anniereborn's avatar

@muppetish I’m with you on that one!

I also love glasses on guys

Oh, and British accents!

Nimis's avatar

Maybe not sexy, per se.
But I find these things attractive about both genders.

- Laugh lines.
– Callouses on their hands.
– When the tip of their nose wiggles when they talk. Makes me want to boop their nose.
– Genuine eye contact while talking.
Even though I have to look away sometimes.
– People who actually chortle.
– People who sniff library books.
– People who absent-mindedly accumulate things in their pockets. Like pebbles and bottle caps.
– People who have string.

ucme's avatar

A couple of the westboro baptist sisters, batshit crazy wackjobs they may be, but well worth a hump or two.

Haleth's avatar

Steve Buscemi. It went from a legitimate appreciation of his weird, weaselly characters to the strangest actor crush ever. People seem to think I’m a movie buff because I’ve watched everything he’s been in. Haha, yeah. Keep thinking that.

augustlan's avatar

Angular hands on men. Or any joints, really. I prefer a sharp, almost square line rather than a rounded one. I freaking love my husband’s hands.

downtide's avatar

- Women wearing corsets
– Red hair, on women or men
– The sound of a well-played tenor saxophone

rojo's avatar

Winter clothing, all that fur, leather and wool.

AshLeigh's avatar

Big knees.

Sueanne_Tremendous's avatar

Toe Rings. Polished nails. Pony tail holders.

talljasperman's avatar

Soft shoulders, mini skirt, pony tail. love of adventure.

Katniss's avatar

Men with long hair!
Yes, I am an 80’s reject.

Kardamom's avatar

Even though you all probably know that I think Martin Clunes is the most beautiful man on earth, I think men with long hair is wonderful, too! The older I get, I realize that specific men look great with long hair, Severus Snape as an example, and Young Paul McCartney, I am equally thrilled with shorter haired fellows such as Patrick Stewart, Ben Kingsley and Johnny Lee Miller and Doc Martin

I guess I just like fellas! Hair or no hair.

SomeoneElse's avatar

Nice smile . . . that’s good.

AshLeigh's avatar

Daryl Dixon, apparently.

Katniss's avatar

@AshLeigh Right there with ya, girlie!

idealstar50's avatar

French guy with nice abs. Love the accent, “bonjour, mon amie, comment s’est passée ta nuit”?

Seek's avatar

This guy

These dudes

these guys, definitely They are awesome, and This guy (my bro.) made their badass armor.

anniereborn's avatar

@Seek_Kolinahr are you in the SCA? If not….join quick :)

Seek's avatar

There is a local chapter, I just never seem to make it to meetings. I spend most of my time at Faire in their tents, though. ^_^

SomeoneElse's avatar

I hold my hand up and say I read the question incorrectly.
It asks for ‘unconventional things’ that I find sexy . . . .
All I can say is that I prefer men who aren’t very good-looking as they are usually much nicer in personality and if they make me laugh, well, what a bonus!

filmfann's avatar

@SomeoneElse How you doin’?

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