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(NSFW) Have you tried this?

Asked by Earthbound_Misfit (13177points) September 14th, 2015

I just read this article about prostate-massage and massagers. I wondered if anyone had tried it themselves or tried it with their partner. What was your experience?

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Buttonstc's avatar

The info in that article is neither particularly new or earth shattering.

I notice this was on an Australian website because I doubt that it would do much here in the U. S.

Plus, I noticed how many sentences describing the benefits began with “It may…”

Even tho it may do this or it may do that, I seriously doubt that’s sufficeient to overcome the hesitancy of many American men who assidously avoid anything which could possibly be perceived as “gay”.

There is so much homophobia in this culture still that regardless of how much benefit there is, if falls on deaf ears.

Now, if a man is secure in his sexuality then this info would make a lot of sense. I just don’t think that men like that represent a clear majority of American men.

And, yes, I have discussed it with men and the reactions I’ve gotten have been fairly typical. Not interested.

Earthbound_Misfit's avatar

So you haven’t tried this and don’t have any personal experience of prostate-massage @Buttonstc?

Buttonstc's avatar

No, Obviously I read quite a bit about it but couldn’t find a willing participant.

I thought it would be kinda fun but no guy ever thought likewise :)

sinscriven's avatar

I’ve had it tried on me during oral once.

Works as advertised, gave a lot of depth to the pleasure and stimulation and the erm… ejaculation was triple than usual.

Adirondackwannabe's avatar

Only with my doctor and never for a good reason.
@Earthbound, is that why they call you the land down under?

LuckyGuy's avatar

The first and last time was by my Uro. Six weeks later he removed it.

And I paid good money for that service!

Adirondackwannabe's avatar

@LuckyGuy He could have let you keep it in some fluid so you could give it the occasional stroke. ~

Silence04's avatar

This is news to people?!
...clearly a sign that vanillas need to try some other flavors.

elbanditoroso's avatar

A couple of months ago I had a prostate biopsy. Nice shiny white probe that had needles that poked me a dozen times.

That’s about the extent of my desire to have anything get anywhere near my prostate. Pleasurefull or not, no thanks.

bossob's avatar

I enjoy it, and my wife has fun too.

Earthbound_Misfit's avatar

@Silence04, vanilla as I may be, no I haven’t tried it. However, I think the toys suggested might be a fun present for my husband. So, did you have anything constructive to add to the discussion? You’re obviously an expert.

Thanks @sinscriven and @bossob for sharing your experiences. I think I’ll go with buying a toy and see what happens. I have mentioned it to him and he’s game. @Adirondackwannabe, @LuckyGuy and @elbanditoroso your experiences sound a little too clinical and not much fun. :-)

Adirondackwannabe's avatar

@Earthbound_Misfit I’d give it a whirl, my s/o not so much. And you’re not even scratching the surface of how not fun that was

SmashTheState's avatar

It’s been known by prostitutes in every culture for literally millenia that sticking one’s finger up a guy’s ass and massaging his prostate while he’s fucking is a virtually guaranteed way to make him orgasm faster and finish.

cookieman's avatar

^ I love when he talks all romantic-like.

Earthbound_Misfit's avatar

@SmashTheState, and I know it’s a serious erogenous zone, but the question was ‘have you done this’ and ‘what was your experience’? As can be seen from this tiny sample of people, not all men have experienced prostate massage in a sexual situation and not all men want to.

SmashTheState's avatar

@Earthbound_Misfit I’m asexual and aromantic. I have never experienced sexual attraction, for which I am eternally grateful. So no, I have not experienced this. Nor will I.

DominicY's avatar

Yes, I have done it with my boyfriend—I enjoy it. The feeling it produces can be quite intense.

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