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Do you give your partner time to really miss you ? Or you guys just see each other everyday?

Asked by PredatorGanazX (222points) September 14th, 2008

I dont know if we need to see each other as a couple,even if I love it but my partner keep on saying please give space between both of us ,,

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FrancisRude's avatar

My gf and I have been living together for 2 years now. Yeah i might smother her sometimes but i tell you, i think there are factors involved in order to avoid such things. Communications, enjoying each others company? But yeah, we still miss each other eventhough we share everything.

As a guy, just make her miss you.. ;) slow down on calling sometimes, text etc.. My gf and i constantly email, and if i dont email or reply, then shed miss me or you know girls… haha..

Nimis's avatar

We try to spend as much time together as possible. Though, inevitably, we are busy and will end up missing each other.

cyndyh's avatar

I like the saying “How can I miss you if you won’t go away?” :^>

My fella and I spend a lot of time together since we’ve been together for more than a decade. We do see each other every day, but we don’t work together so there is some time to miss each other. He still calls me everyday when he takes his lunch. But that’s us. It may be different for you guys.

If your partner is asking for space then you should find out how much space they want and try to accommodate them. It doesn’t mean it will always be that way, but if the other person feels smothered you won’t have a nice time with them anyway.

qualitycontrol's avatar

we both work 7 days a week and are naturally tired individuals. Usually go with a one day on one day off routine. Seems to work good, that way we miss each other on the off day and we both have enough time to rest from the busy work day.

sacaver's avatar

My wife and I both work for the same company. In fact, I can shoot rubber bands at her from within the same office. I just hit her in the head with one now We typically have the same days on/off as that saves on gas. now I’m getting a mean look as she just discovered a rubber band in her hair

She used to be a teacher, but left after 6 years. Too stressful, bitchy parents, crappy kids, little pay. She’s worked at the company I’m at off and on during summers, and she came back full time this past June as our education coordinator. We make it work. It’s not all bad, but I think a lot of it just depends on the individuals.

syz's avatar

We live together, work together, work out together…...

EmpressPixie's avatar

There are days—usually one or two a week—that we don’t see each other, but other than that we see each other all the time and still manage to miss one another! It depends on what is going on, but sometimes even though we’re around each other guests or roommates mean we don’t get any private time. In which case one of us is likely to say we miss the other.

scamp's avatar

SO and I live together and work together. I think the only time I am away from him is when I am in the bathroom. :)

La_chica_gomela's avatar

Both! I see Tim everyday (usually more than once a day) and I still miss him a lot!

We always wake up together. We try to eat lunch and dinner together, and study together, but we’re both really busy (mostly me I guess) so those don’t always work out, but I always miss him after a few hours. Sometimes I miss him as soon as he leaves the house…

PredatorGanazX's avatar

Great sharing ladies and gentlemen and yeah now I feel better now. I guess I just need to talk to her on how much space that she needs ..

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