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cornbird's avatar

Is it really possible for guys to get any woman they want?

Asked by cornbird (1747points) April 11th, 2010

I have heard about great players that can get any woman that they want. I want to know if this is true. I dont believe it but I would just like to hear what you guys have to say about it.

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wonderingwhy's avatar

Only when they define their wants by the women they get. oh, and occasionally in their dreams.

UScitizen's avatar

IF anyone could figure this out, they would immediately become a billionaire.

Dog's avatar

No. It is not possible for a guy to get any girl he wants.
Not unless he can shape shift.
There is no way on earth I would cheat on my soul mate.

RealEyesRealizeRealLies's avatar

You can have any girl you want but mine… unless she wants.

Cruiser's avatar

It only seems that way to the socially inept.

DarkScribe's avatar

I have met several guys who come close, a new attractive girl every few days – a bit like Charlie Sheen in “Two and a Half Men”. In each case they were misogynists to the core. They made an art-form out of pickups but did not like or respect women at all. Mocked them all the time (behind their backs.)

ParaParaYukiko's avatar

I don’t think so. These players are probably talking about “any girl they want” in the scene where they usually hang. If a “player” in the main-stream pop culture world tried to get a girl at an anime convention, for example, he probably wouldn’t succeed.

I think it’s incredibly telling if someone claims they can have any girl they want. Obviously they feel they need to overcompensate for something by making such claims.

Likeradar's avatar

Haha… NO.
Some guys are really good at manipulating women and pretending to be something they’re not. Some women fall for that.
That doesn’t mean they can get any woman they want. These are usually guys who get rejected pretty often, then cover it with some bullshit like “I didn’t want that uppity bitch anyway”...

RealEyesRealizeRealLies's avatar


I don’t know if you’re male or female, but in asking this question, did you also ask if anybody out there could have You, just because they wanted You?

Coloma's avatar

Collecting people to prop up ones own sagging ego is the most pathetic of human traits. Ugh!

Silhouette's avatar

It’s possible for a man to attract a very large number of women and there are plenty of women out there who think getting a man is a competition so they will line up and compete for the same man, each certain they have the “magic triangle”. But, there are many women who are a little deeper than that and those women are very tough for any man to “get”.

Kismet's avatar

There is no way this is true.
Every girl has her own taste in men, different qualities they like.
Sure, a man may be able to attract a good amount of lovely ladies, but there are still going to be some he won’t get.

I would never leave my handsome man for some player anyway, and I’m not the only lady who feel this way.

Zen_Again's avatar

Yes, I can.

But what you do with them after you catch them has always eluded me.

ragingloli's avatar

That depends on how easily they can get their hands on chloroform.

silverfly's avatar

Saying “I can get any woman I want” is like saying, “I have a small penis and I have to pretend to be cocky to compensate”.

tranquilsea's avatar

I could always tell when I was being played. That made those guys instantly unattractive.

Captain_Fantasy's avatar

Players are good at identifying partners they can manipulate.
It’s not as though they can pick out anyone anywhere and get them to put out.

wildflower's avatar

Anyone claiming to have this ‘ability’ (and that goes for women who claim they can ‘get any man they want’) is at best reasonably good at briefly seducing someone they find mildly attractive… worst they’re stalker material….in any case, we’re not talking healthy, genuine desire for a particular individual….

CaptainHarley's avatar

“You can’t always get what you want. No, you can’t always get what you want. But if you try sometimes, you just might find, you get what you need.” – The Rolling Stones

cornbird's avatar

I believe if a woman tries hard enough she can get any man she wants. To me men are easier to get than women.

Likeradar's avatar

@cornbird I disagree, at least with the first past of your answer. I have full faith that a woman who wants my guy (or several other upstanding men I know) would fail miserably.

cornbird's avatar

At the right place and at the right time a man could get really weak especially if the girl is hot and throws herself at him. I dont want to bring doubts into your head but this occurs to almost every male.

thriftymaid's avatar

Sure, as long as the women they want want them

mattbrowne's avatar

No, of course not. What you heard is an urban legend.

kyanblue's avatar

What if the woman is a lesbian? That’s a rather significant insurmountable obstacle.

DarkScribe's avatar

@kyanblue What if the woman is a lesbian?

He could always do a “Lady GaGa” and dress as a women. Although today Lady GaGa announced that s/he is celibate.

(Possibly can’t decide which way to swing?)

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