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When is it ok to tell the person your dating you love them?

Asked by jessicar (225points) May 26th, 2009

I’ve always wondered is there a certain time frame in which it’s ok to tell someone you love them? Do you wait for them to say it first before you do? Do you say it when you feel it and hope it doesn’t scare them off? What’s your opinion on this?

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Judi's avatar

When you feel it and mean it.

Simone_De_Beauvoir's avatar

I agree with @Judi when you love them

brettvdb's avatar

I used to wonder this same thing, until I fell in love. When it happens, you’ll know, and you won’t be able to keep it a secret.

wundayatta's avatar

If you do it between 1:45 pm and 3:13 pm on a Saturday afternoon, it’s usually ok, except if there is a blue moon or an eclipse. In that case, the following Wednesday at 11:12 am is acceptable.

Darwin's avatar

When you figure out that you do indeed love them.

If everyone waits for the other person to say it first, it will never be said, now will it?

Jude's avatar

Don’t say it until you truly feel it. And, don’t feel that you should say it simply because they said it to you. Made that mistake myself.

sweetie432's avatar

also my advice would be to be prepared not hear it back becuse the other person may not be at that stage yet.

chelseababyy's avatar

When you know it’s right.
When you feel it in your heart,
and every other part of your body.
When you know that person is exactly what you want,
flaws and all.

tiffyandthewall's avatar

when it is true.

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