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What was your worst breakup?

Asked by Eggie (5921points) February 6th, 2011

I have just broken up with my gf and I think this would make me feel a whole lot better.

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Bellatrix's avatar

If you actually care about the person, break-ups never feel nice. Although they feel a hell of a lot nicer for the person doing the breaking up.

My worst would have to be my first marriage. It was horrible and the horror lasted a long time. This was particularly terrible since we have children. I wish we had handled things a lot better. Definitely lessons to be learned about turning the other cheek on both sides of the fence.

MyNewtBoobs's avatar

Well, there was the one where, instead of breaking up with me in person, she had the girl she was cheating on me with call me and do the dumping for her. That one was pretty bad.

filmfann's avatar

I have had a couple, from a gf berating me in front of her new bf, to finding my gf sleeping with my best friend.
My son had a bad one with a gf of 4 years. She texted him, saying they were broken up. She never spoke to him about it. My son was crushed.

Cruiser's avatar

When my favorite barber told me he was moving!! Bastard!

lucillelucillelucille's avatar

Being stalked by Psycho Bob was no fun.

Coloma's avatar

My divorce 8 years ago after almost 22 years of marriage.
Trust me, you’ll survive, and be much happier in the long run.

Time does heal all wounds and it also wounds all heels. lol

Joker94's avatar

I’ve never had success in relationships, having only had one girlfriend. Either way, after dating for almost two years, she broke up with me through text message. Cowardly, stupid, horrible thing to do to a person.

ucme's avatar

Oh without a doubt when I was seperated from my teddy bear. Trevor was his name & well, he had the cutest face you ever did see. We had a wonderfully trusting relationship me & “Trev” did….sobs….I miss him so very much. It’s been a week now & i’m just about coping, but it’s hard, so very very hard :¬(

Dutchess_III's avatar

@lucillelucillelucille All he wanted was a samwich!

Man, my first marriage probably. My breakup with my high school sweetheart was emotionally traumatic, and something I’ll never forget, but ending a marriage is in a whole other league.

GladysMensch's avatar

Not as terrible as most, but memorable. When I was in 10th grade my girlfriend had written my name all over her shoes. I went on vacation with my family for a week, and we couldn’t speak during that time (before cell phones). When I returned I called her, but she wouldn’t take my calls. I saw her at school and noticed she had replaced my name with another guys. I said “what’s up?” She just said “sorry”, and never spoke to me again.

aprilsimnel's avatar

@GladysMensch – Damn, that was cold.

Neizvestnaya's avatar

I once had a psycho bf and had to sneak around with friends in order to get away from him for good. He harassed my friends, my co workers, called everyone in a phone book of mine claiming I was practically helpless and he needed their help to find me and take care of me. He hired a private investigator, according to his parents who never understood why I didn’t want their son who obviously wanted me fanatically. Eek.

Supacase's avatar

I’m going to go with the one that ended with me spending a month in the mental hospital. The entire relationship was one big mess, but the breakup was traumatic.

feedmeallfacts's avatar

here is my story

I had a boyfriend whom I loved so much. I did everything for him eventhough I know that he just loves me as a friend. And he still thinks of his past. I know that he still loves his ex even before our relationship. I ask him one day if he now loves me, he said “i’m getting there”. I felt so happy atleast he is starting to love me and I felt that too. Months have past and we became very happy. I asked him again if he loves me, on my surprise, he said “Im sorry, I never got thre” :(

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