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Why does this guy look at all his ex's Facebooks?

Asked by dopeguru (1928points) October 23rd, 2015

This guy left his Facebook open and in his activity log I see he checks all three of his ex’s Facebooks late at nights quite often, I’d say like once every 2 weeks. Times are odd, like 1 am, 4 am, 2 am… He checks them back to back. I found this pretty strange. Why would this be? Huh.

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ARE_you_kidding_me's avatar

Ahhh, why were you looking through the history?

dopeguru's avatar

@ARE_you_kidding_me It was literally open on my laptop so i scrolled down to see when we became friends haha and noticed all this crap

LuckyGuy's avatar

Please don’t ask him or say you did it. Don’t even hint at it. Nothing is to be gained.

I’d guess he couldn’t sleep in the middle of the night and was curious. I would not worry about it. By the way that is one of the ways FB makes friend suggestions. If he used your account while doing it you will likely get a suggestion to be friends with them.
Don’t.

_Seek_'s avatar

Don’t ask a question you don’t want to hear the answer to.

Honestly, though? I stalk everyone on Facebook. I stalked my mother and I hate her, and haven’t spoken to her in eight years. She blocked me recently, after I posted some meme about shitty parents. Apparently she was stalking me, too.

It probably doesn’t mean anything.

elbanditoroso's avatar

You don’t say whether he is a boyfriend or just a friend. I assume your’re his girlfriend.

Believe it or not, he was with people before you. He had friends before you. Whether they are ex-girlfriends or not, they were still at one point friends. So he is look after his friends. He didn’t have a lobotomy when he met you.

I agree with @ARE_you_kidding_me and @LuckyGuy – it’s none of your damn business any. Don’t snoop.

chyna's avatar

Is this the same guy you think you might be pregnant by?

cheebdragon's avatar

Because he’s a loser who can’t let go of the past.

lasuz's avatar

He is having trouble cutting cords from his past and maybe he is in a small way trying to control them (indirectly).

I would not say anything about it as it will cause resentment.

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