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jdogg's avatar

Theres a new girl at our school and I want to get to know her ,any suggestions?

Asked by jdogg (871points) January 29th, 2009 from iPhone

I want to be her friend but she is kind of hanging out with more of the popular kids. She very nice and is easy to talk to I just want to know her better.

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Mtl_zack's avatar

If she’s struggling in a class help her out, and kinda become a tutor. Then, continue the relationship out of school and bring it from a “study relationship” into whatever you want it to be.

eponymoushipster's avatar

slip her a roofie.

oh wait, not in the biblical sense?

if she’s easy to talk to, then it shouldn’t be too hard to get to know her. just keep the conversation alive…

marinelife's avatar

Just go up and tell her what you told us. “I’d like to get to know you. My name is jdogg.”

cordovanessa's avatar

It doesnt matter who she is talking to or hanging out with if you really want to get to know her that well then go talk to her and let her know that you would like to get to know her better and yeah!

scamp's avatar

If she’s so easy to talk to, just say hello and ask her to hang out after school sometime. Tell her you want to get to know her and ask her if she wants you to show her around town.

mangeons's avatar

Make a funny comment. Girls love humor, even if it is totally lame.

eponymoushipster's avatar

@mangeons that works on fluther too.

Jack79's avatar

Just go for it. I spent half my life being too shy to talk to girls, then the other half regretting it. And ended up with the wrong wife as a result.

There is a huge chance that she might not be interested, but so what? And what if she actually is, and is too shy to show you? Go for it, you have absolutely nothing to lose and a lot to gain, even if it won’t work out. Tell us how it went :)

dynamicduo's avatar

Go up to her, introduce yourself, offer to help her with anything she’s having trouble with (maybe the layout of the school, etc), and say you’d love to hang out sometime. You’ll never lose anything by being friendly. The worst that will happen is she will say no.

maybe_KB's avatar

Ask her if she’s been to the movies lately?
If so, What did you see?
You got a lot of friends?
Ask her, “What’s your favorite food”?
The convo. should roll from here & viola..You know her!

Jeruba's avatar

I was always a pushover for any variant of “Hi. You look like someone who’d be interesting to talk to.” You could try it.

Sorry, @maybe_KB, but those sound like questions that would make anyone nearby giggle. They might work better later than as a lead.

blueberry_kid's avatar

Be yourself and just talk to her. Ask her what does she like, does she like it here, all that jazz.

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